Relationship with a Family Man

It is not right to have a relationship with a person who is already in a relationship with someone else. I have heard this time and again, i wonder how married men seem to be attractive to some women. You will have to give it up, sad as it would sound, but that is the right thing to do. Try to think about it from his wife's angle.

That is just wrong. What about the wife and possibly kids? If the husband had divorced his wife then fine but he is married and it's called cheating and I'm sure you wouldn't like to get cheated on. Think about if that guy can cheat on his wife with you who's to say that he won't cheat on you?

Having a relationship with a married man is destined for failure. he is already committed to someone else. he will never have a true commitment to you. There is nothing wrong with a friendship between single and married individuals. Anything beyond that is not likely to happen. There is no future for you if you are single and seeking the attentions of a married man. It will be difficult to sever the ties if you love this person, but you are only inviting heartbreak to stay in this kind of relationship. The best choice would be to move on.

It's not right to be close with a married man because this would only cause disagreement between him and his wife. Especially when you get to call him in a middle of the night because you need someone to talk to.

you know what? i am in a relationship with a married man for more than ten years.when i was younger, i never care what other people say,because during that time,i was in love. but...but...yes i was in love, but i never feel happy...never...most specially if your older. and understand well what kind of life you have.a single word MISTRESS is like a ghost following you wherever you are.no peace of mind.i realized it now that if you hurt his family,his family accepted and go with their lives, they are happy,but you who hurt them.well never never be happy,never.if you are older, you will always look for the right thing to have in your life.and the harder is...it's hard to get away,emotionally you will suffer enough... i want to get away now, i am on the process of getting away and it's hard to find the way out.

we need to find ourselves in a good hand and in good path but If I were you my dear, you need to end up that non sense relationship because you don't know what it takes. Just remember that God is always there for you every time and everywhere you go God will guide you just remember that "KARMA" are always there right beside us..

Morally and legally, it's NOT RIGHT. For a woman, getting involve with a married man will just caused you lots of problem,pains and even guilt. Problem - for you will ruin someone's family, life and emotion. Pains on your part, her family especially if they have siblings. Guilt of course on your part, do you think love is enough to be happy? And even if you succeed of winning his love, did it not come to your mind that he is capable of hurting his family can also be your fate at the end when he found soomeone again more lovable than you? Try to be in the place of his wife or children, can you imagine how painful it will be? So better not let your emotion get deeper, give it up while you can at this early stage.

Of course not, it's not right to be in a relationship with a married man. esp if you really know from the start that the guy's married. mistresses DO NOT have uncondional love for them,,,they dont even love themselves...WHY would you become involved with someone who has chosen someone else to be with forever?

That's not right regardless what is the reason the man has for being involve with someone else. Regardless if the marriage is not working and wife is so far. A married person should keep their vows working. They should fix it within not fix someone else. Just put your self in the shoe of the wife, what will you feel if you find out that your husband is cheating? wouldn't your heart be broken? then it's what the wife would feel, irregardless of what the status the marriage is, they should not have that relationship and therefor should give up the man. After all how can you be sure that the man will not leave you again for someone else? if he has done it with his legal wife what more to the new girl.

What to tell you... This will probably brake his marriage. Probably, he loves his wife, and if he has children it's worse... But you didn't add anything about the married man... Does he love/like the other woman (not his wife), does he care about his wife and the other woman? There are many unanswered questions.. It's needed more information and details for a better description of the situation. I would not suggest you anything for now. I need to know more before to make such a big step. We're talking about braking marriage..

Don't waste your life catycat,All things,peace of mind, dignity,will be lost in you. Worst come to worst,You will experience scandal from time to time. And the guilt feeling you will feel for destroying a family. Don't blame for that kind of love.

if you love a married man and have relationship and love him you must talk with that guy and tell you must make a decision. or me or your wife. if he chooses you then he loves you if not then is bcs he doesnt love you. if this happens if he be with wife still you must leave this person even if you love. bcs who loves does everything for the other. so if he loved you he wouldnt be with his wife still. if we love someone we dont need nobody else^^

It is not at all right to have a relationship with a married man. It is morally wrong. Its better to give up on him and find someone else. He's cheating on his wife and it always happens that married men never leave their wives but go out in search of the other woman who's ready to sleep with him. He's not for real but just searching for some excitement outside his married life. Remember there are a lot of unmarried men on earth and there is someone out there waiting for you. Forget about him and always keep in mind that its a sin.

ye i will give him up because i know he has a family and i don't want to make the relationship broken. you need to take the risk and you gonna find someone new.

It has it's "Pro's" and "Con's" in all honesty. I mean, first off, you can't help who you fall in love with, and although sometimes morally wrong, you pursue anyway because of the undying feelings that you desire. However a married man made a commitment, from my personal view, it would hurt the wife alot, and because of what he does to her emotionally via this, how would i know he wouldnt do it to me? Its a hard choice, just take in the factors before making a choice - basically.