i love you goodbye...

Philippines
August 5, 2010 12:27am CST
if there's a beginning,it also needs to have an ending. but the hardest part is,to say, i love you but i need to say goodbye,there are some instance in a relationship that maybe need to let go even if the love still there,not all goodbye's is to set free, but there maybe some deep reasons behind it,or maybe it was just part of realizing how real is your love for each other,because if the relationship goes deeper maybe it could be taken for granted, and if you lose your partner. that will maybe the time that you will realize how important to keep that person into your life.it's hard to express those words if both side feel the same.you will always end up together i guess...but if you alone feel that way, then I LOVE YOU GOODBYE IS THE BEST WAY OUT OF LETTING GO.
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11 responses
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
That is not really cool. if the two of you does not love each other or one of you does not love the other anymore then you should tell them the truth about what you really feel and goodbye is not really the thing to say. You can still be friends. You need to value the memories you have in the past.
• Portugal
5 Aug 10
yes if just one person love is better to say bye. we all must love someone that love us back. we all have someone destined that will really love us so we must not waste time with people that doesnt worth it. i loved a guy before but he started to act stupid and careless and even doubted about my word and didnt defend me so i stopped to talk with him. we were best friends i always cared for him and he even acted stupid to me. so i let him. now i love a guy and he loves me too and i know that soon we can be happy^^
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
It's hard to say goodbye when you still love him but if the love is one way around it goes into unhappy relationship. Let the one be free from the love of partner be apart for the meantime just to know if there is love remain in his/her heart. in this case you will know what is really happening between the two. I love you goodbye is really hurt to those who is inlove.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 10
Yes i got friends who love each other but after many years they separate because they feel they cannot progress anymore, and one party love her and let her go her way because she is more happy without him! Another is unsuccesful courtship, he let her go away since she is not happy with him and not compatible even he love her that much , but at the end have to let her go.
@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
5 Aug 10
I love you, good bye but one minute, who are you? I am sorry that I don't know you. I am mistake and mad.
@vooturi (157)
• India
5 Aug 10
The hardest thing anyone can do is I LOVE YOU,GOODBYE its really hard to leave your loved one,it can be easy saying but practically u cannot do it as its very hard to miss, U always regret for doin that! I found that from many of friends experiences
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 10
ending a relationship, it will certainly hurt the feelings but that remain will be better than keep together but must there are being hurt. In this case I agree with your opinion, I also prefer to express ... I love you gooodbye
@dian21 (606)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
In a relationship, there should be love between both. If it is the only who is in love, then there is really no point in continuing the relationship, and better say goodbye to each other even if it is really painful. Anyways, if you are really meant for each other, no matter how long you separate from each other, you will still end up together someday. In the mean time, you better both find yourself away from each other. And if you are not really meant for each other, for sure there is other person destined for you. You just have to relax yourself first from loving and if you are ready already,open your heart and mind to others.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Ouch!That's very painful, saying I love you and at the same time saying goodbye. They said if you really love that person then set him/her free and if he/she comes back then you're really meant to be. Seeing your love one happy is the best way of showing true love, we rather choose to get hurt than seeing them unhappy. Well, if your not meant to each other then there's no reason to push yourself. Probably you are meant to meet another person destined for you.
• China
5 Aug 10
I have ever loved a girl very much,but someone alse wes in her heart.I have tried to take his place in her heart,failed at last however.under that circumstance,i had two chioces ,quit or stick to.in the end,i quited.i believe setting her free is better to each other.i love her,so say "goodbye".
@jadmari (125)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Do you think it's a cliche, don't you? There are some instances that couples would let go of each other because they love too much, and they already don't know the problem or whats missing in the relationship. It is so cliche that one of the couple would say "I love you enough that I don't want to hurt you anymore!" It is just like saying I LOVE YOU GOODBYE right? So what happend is that the couple let go of each other to find theirselves back on track and realize that both of them need to grow and be mature enough to say HELLO I LOVE YOU again.