an effect watching a vulgar movies

@adhyz82 (36262)
Indonesia
August 6, 2010 2:17am CST
whats your thinking if our childs watchs an movies which contain many violence and vulgar things? and what will you do?
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6 responses
• United States
6 Aug 10
You don't let them watch vulgar movies if you don't think that they can handle it. Put a chip on your TV. Watch the rating system. Monitor what your children are watching. Teach them about what they are watching. There really are no excuses here. Education is key when teaching your children how to deal with vulgar movies.
@adhyz82 (36262)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
dont let them watch in our home is not effective i think...they can watch in their friends home..and what will you do??
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• United States
7 Aug 10
Have a chat with their friend's parents, and tell them that you don't want your child watching those kinds of movies.
@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 10
This discussion interesting, honest, although many published research results represent and explain that there is a bad influence on impressions of violence and vulgarity on television for children or someone, I personally, to this day have yet to find the facts that justify the research. From since I was little, my parents always forbade me from watching the cartoon movie "tom & jerry" because in thats cartoons are many scenes of beatings, which according to my parents, it's not funny and only teach small children to be naughty. However, despite being banned again and again, I still watch it. in fact? Until now, until the age of 35 years, I kept watching it and I did not experience or have any detrimental effect
@adhyz82 (36262)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
i can understand the meaning of your parents...and maybe it can works for you...and now you become a parents..and you can do whats your parents do when you is in child..right??
@grenz07 (92)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
First of all, Responsible parents will not allow their kids to watch or just even see materials that promotes obscenity and violence. Those children below teen age years minds are still curious and incapable to handle adult contents.
@adhyz82 (36262)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
off course the duty of parents is responsibilty for their children both mentality, morality and phiycal aspects..right??
@musedsmh (256)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 10
i fell bad if that happen to my child, because children is imitate every thing what they see, so it will be a negative effect for my child action someday
@adhyz82 (36262)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
ya, and now in our lovely country , the rule about limitations of vulgar videos is not clear..and it can danger the mentality of this people in this country...you can amazing the impact of this vulgar things in our television
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@nanayangel (7862)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
Hi there Adhyz! I think that we should always follow the restrictions set by the censorship board since the ones who have set that are professionals and clearly, they know what they are doing when they set those restrictions. I wouldn't want my child or children watching vulgar movies and also those that are too violent. I think that it affects their perception of things especially the really young ones who are in their formative years.
@adhyz82 (36262)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
so you always follow or watch together with your kids when they are watching television?
@coffeebreak (17820)
• United States
7 Aug 10
Kids learn what they are taught. If you let them watch this crap... they will learn all about it and use it in life. And it isn't just vulgar and violence they pick up. My grand daughter now 10, watches Hanna Montana. And I have watched it and think it is among the most pathetic stupid things ever made...yet it is top rated in the girls. And I see my GD and her friends all "acting" like those girls. That attitude and arrogance and even the body structure... all the girls act and talk like that now! I don't allow her to watch it at my house..does she miss it? No. we do other things and watch the History channel, Discover, Kids NG etc. TV is not as easy as it used to be. Used to be you could let the kids watch whatever they wanted, now a days, it has to be very monitored.