is there a chance for mr. wrong to become mr. right?

Philippines
August 11, 2010 10:11am CST
i feel like im loving mr. wrong hoping that soon he will become mr. right.. he is not my dream man. he's not sweet. he is moody.. and he has given me a lot of heartaches and pain, but still i continue to love him.. this is crazy..
7 responses
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
If you can make him change for the best then that's good, but if he has no plans or no signs of changing he's bad attitude then you have two choices, it's either continue loving him and accept heartaches and pain or just leave him and find others. If you really love him, be the Ms. Right for him, that's one effective key I guess.
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
i feel like i have given him all the chances in the world.. when the world left him, i was there standing beside him.. i guess he is starting to change.. i hope this will be for good.. sometimes, i still feel like i am unappreciated..
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
It's up to you if you can still hold on to him. If you leave him, he might realize that he loves you.
• United Arab Emirates
11 Aug 10
Every person has a good quality in him. When you start concentrating on his bad quality all you will bee is only bad and when you see start looking at the good things you will see only good. Its your choice what you want to see. When you start appreciating the good in him. he will start doing it more number of time...as everyone likes to be appreciated. There is a 100% chance that your Mr. wrong will be Mr. right...and i wish you all the best.
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
i guess your right, as we are trying to start it again.. but i just cant forget of the things he has done.. and he gets irritated when he gets reminded of that too.. thanks for this advice...
• India
11 Aug 10
Hi.. I've been waiting for this from so long but love doesn't seem to be good to me ... I've messed up and have risked my beautiful friendship just waiting for this to happen...?? But love may be good to you...! but still see that you keep your friendship strong so that you are not lost at the end of whatever happens. IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO COME BACK TO BEING YOURSELF AFTER ALL THIS
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
yeah.. i guess sometimes, we just have to accept how things are... we are still together though.. but i just hope things will be ok now..
@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
If you are hoping for someone that he's not, then you are making a big mistake. If what you are looking for is not in that man/woman then there is no chance in this world that your relationship will work, unless there is divine intervention. Loving someone with the wrong intentions or loving someone for someone they are not, would be a total disaster. Hope you will find what your looking for. =)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
i love him the way he is... its just that i dont feel he is loving me the same way... and i am hoping that soon he will show his sensitive side.. i am still waiting for dreamlover but i hope it will be him... crazy
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@incus99 (1086)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
It's very difficult to determine if he's Mr. Right.. but I'm sure that people can change... I really hope he can change for the better.. you should also recognize that you are one of the major forces that can commit this change..
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
i see he is changing now.. but i just hope this will be for real.. but somehow, i just feel like i might regret things for wasting my time and love for him... he is starting to show care and love though, and we are trying to start again..
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
As they say, if you already knew it is wrong from the very start, you should start walking away from it. However, I know that a woman's heart may be stubborn at times, hoping that she can change the man that she loves in the way she hopes him to be. However, it will be a difficult task to handle since all of us are different in so many ways, and things will not always turn to what we expect it to be. All I can say now if he is not treating you right now, how sure are you that he will treat you any better in the future? If the heartaches and pains that he causes you outweighed the good things that he shares with you, then I think its high time you start loving yourself more...
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
yeah.. i feel like i am being stubborn.. i keep hoping he would change and things will turn out fine.. i promised myself that this will be the last... we are actually trying to start again.. like forget everything in the past.. i just hope that this will be for real this time.. thanks for your advice.. i guess i should start weighing things and gaining back my love for myself too..
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
How wrong this man could be? because he is not the one you dreamed about, and never expected that you will fall for him. The same as I am before. My husband is the last person in the world I thought I would love. He is not that sweet, not showy of his emotions, playboy, has many bad vices like smoking, drinking, happy go lucky guy. But I fell for him. And you know what? He's changed, and he told me that I'm the reason why he has become a better person. So I think your Mr. Wrong will soon be Mr. Right if he really truthfully, faithfully and deeply loves you he will changed himself to become a better man that deserves to have you. As the saying goes, love can move mountains. :)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
wow.. thank you.. i feel like my boyfriends is also like your husband.. but i am still hoping he would change.. i think he is starting to change now, and is starting to make me feel love.. but i am still hoping this would be for real this time.. i do hope he will soon become my mr. right..