I've been searching...
August 11, 2010 10:52pm CST
when me and my ex boyfriend separated..i had decided not to love again but as the days pass by, there is a feeling that i am looking for something..and i don't know what is it... then, i thought and ask myself...Am I looking for the one who makes me happy and complete me... How will I know that he is the one already? And what if he will come and I don't love him or even like him.. What will I do???
12 Aug 10
Hi there, Jolan. :) How can someone make you happy when you don't love or even like him for that matter? He can shower you with everything and anything you need but he will never be enough for you, thus, making you feel empty still and unhappy. So, don't go for someone you think can give you everything but the inner happiness.That is shallow base for getting happiness and fulfillment... I have been in relationships before I met my husband. He wasn't the ideal man but, oh, he got so many flaws.But when I first kissed him, the world seem had stopped.LOL.No matter what difficulties we faced we were able to survive and never tainted nor daunted the love for each other. There is always something that makes me look forward to despite of the rough road we are taking. And I know in my heart that he is the one who can make me happy because he makes my heart happy, too. He feels the same way for me.:)