Do you think FIGHT strengthens the relationship of the friends?

@sami00 (891)
India
August 12, 2010 7:24am CST
Hello friends, We would have seen most of the friends used to fight together due to some misunderstandings.After the fight they used to be united together and not fighting.After the fight ,they have understood themselves very well.Even,I had the same experiences in my school.I think that fight between friends,strengthens the relationship between them. So guys have you ever met such incidents in your life.?
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rkbazad
@rkbazad (131)
• India
13 Aug 10
hi sami00, yes my friend same thing happen with me in chat with a doll, she always doubt and jealous with a person and always ready for fight with me. she promised she never fight with me but always do this after some time(10-15 min.) but after this she come normal and become a sweet doll. :)
sami00
@sami00 (891)
• India
15 Aug 10
Hello, Interesting matter for you my friend.When you are fighting with your friend it always makes you to understand your friend better.With better understanding,you can be a good friend.Hope you understand you friend better and so that, you become good friends. Thanks for your comment.
sami00
@sami00 (891)
• India
15 Aug 10
Hello, Sorry for mentioning your wife as a friend.Hope you understand your wife better. Fight cannot strengthen your relationship between your wife.It may result in break up.Fight strenghtens only best friends. Thanks for your comments.
rkbazad
@rkbazad (131)
• India
15 Aug 10
she is not my friend , she is everything for me .. she is my wife .. :)
meemingNEW
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
Ever since I was in high school, my best friend has been always telling me that.. "People can be considered as true friends if and if they have quarreled already". And I really believed that it is true because that's what happened between me and my best friend 6 years ago back in high school. We quarreled over some stupid game, I was a bit immature then.. we didn't talk for almost a week but later reconciled. It was an experience to remember because if we never quarreled, we would not be this understanding with each other now if the fight never happened. It sorta strengthened our relationship. We learned from our mistakes and flaws and have understood each one's weaknesses better. So YES, I fully agree that a fight strengthens a relationship of friends.
sami00
@sami00 (891)
• India
12 Aug 10
Hello, Happy to know that,you had similar experience like me.Your friend have also told a wonderful statement to understand the meaning of friendship.I am grateful to you for sharing yours friend quote.Fight between our friends gives us the possibility of understanding them.Without a fight in our life between friends, I don't think it will create better understanding.I very happy that you have agreed to me . Thanks for your comment my friend.
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meemingNEW
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
Thank you right back. :) That's nice to know that you experienced the same thing as well. Its really hard to find true friends. And we're lucky enough to have one for life. Cheers!
sami00
@sami00 (891)
• India
13 Aug 10
Hello, Yes,we are really lucky to get best friends MEEMINGNEW .
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
i think for some, it can strengthen the relationships... but for me i think it could destroy it, friends can make up, they can be friends but i think there would already be some break in the glass of friendship.
sami00
@sami00 (891)
• India
15 Aug 10
Hello, Yes,for some people fight strengthens the relationship of friends.It makes each other to understand them well.After a better understanding,they can share everything and trust your best friends.Sorry to know that this has not happened in your life. Even sometimes,fight can break the relationship of best friends. Thanks for your comment.
wannaberich
@wannaberich (246)
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12 Aug 10
I think it will depend if the fight with your friend is very serious or not. If it's about minor details then maybe your bond might get stronger, but if it is deeper than that, it might create a gap and will make you just ordinary friends.
sami00
@sami00 (891)
• India
12 Aug 10
Hello, Maybe, I think you are also right.The quality of the fight also depends.In most of the situations.the fight would have been due to misunderstandings.I don't think there are too much deeper problems.If it is a very deeper problem,it might create a gap between best friends. Thanks for your comment.
sjaswon
@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
12 Aug 10
I have a same experience. When I was a teen. I fought with the students. Sometimes I broke rule of the school. Then I was a detention. I am outside over the sun. As I fought with a kid when I am child. Then I cried.
sami00
@sami00 (891)
• India
13 Aug 10
Hello, I am sorry for your some of the bad experiences in your school days.I think after your fight,you must have a better understanding with your friend. Thanks for your comment.
BigTips
@BigTips (304)
• China
12 Aug 10
Frankly speaking, it is not a good way for most people to get familiar with each other just bying fighting together. On the contrary, if misunderstandings appear between friends, the best way to solve the problem may be to realize of their own mistake and then try their best to say sorry to each other. That is to say, communication is the only useful way to sole such a bad situation. So, Fight has nothing to do with strenghtening the relationship of the friends.
sami00
@sami00 (891)
• India
12 Aug 10
Hello, I think you are new to MY LOT.So I warmly welcome you. Regarding the discussion,communication doesn't works all the time.Solving the problem by communication is like not having trust between the best friends. In most of the situations,FIGHT used to develop the relationship of the friends.It makes each other to understand themselves better. Thanks for your comment BIG TIPS.