would you go to other country for love?^^

Portugal
August 12, 2010 1:53pm CST
hi guys^^ if you fell in love for someone that lives in other country but just talekd and saw each other by internet would you go to meet him or her in his country?^^ what would you guys do?^^ i would for sure^^
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• United Arab Emirates
12 Aug 10
Only if i have enough money. i cant make anyone blind promises which i cannot fulfill. I did fall in love withmy wife who was from a different stste. I used to travel miles to meet it and it wasnt ofte. It used to be once in 2 or three months.
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@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
13 Aug 10
Are you happy with her now? :)
• United Arab Emirates
13 Aug 10
touch wood...yes i am.
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
aww so sweet of you^^ to travel there to meet her but so sad you lived far for awhile^^ anyway you are right we must not make blind promises bcs someone can really be sad with it.
@zralte (4186)
• India
12 Aug 10
I did go to other country, but the situation is different than what you mentioned. I met my husband when I was just finishing my postgraduation. I went to meet his family, then I went back and forth to finish up my education and well to get the degree and everything. We got married a year later. I don't think I can fall in love over the internet and I definitely would not go to another country to meet someone that I have never met in real life. I am too much of a coward for that. I need to see and feel the other person first.
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@zralte (4186)
• India
12 Aug 10
Hey, that brings me up to the 1000 mark that I have been aiming for a long time. YAY for me.....
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
ohh anyway that was sweet that you went to your bf country to meet his parents^^ anyway i understand your side :) even if i loved a guy from other country i would try to meet him i understand you are afraid to do that^^
@Bookmite (53)
• United States
12 Aug 10
No, I absolutely would not go to another country for an online relationship. I knew someone who did this and I've also known people who have moved to other states for the sake of an online relationship and it has not worked out in any of the cases. It caused a financial hardship as well as a lot of emotional pain.
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
yes to some people it happens but there are those that met and are happy together^^ it all depends if the love is true in both sides or not^^
@rappeter13 (5298)
• Romania
13 Aug 10
In my opinion, every person should find his mate from the same nationality as he is. That is not related to countries. But if that person is from other nationality than no, maybe a physical relationship, but never official one. This is my opinion. And by the way, nationality has nothing to do with the country you live in, nationality is related to you mother tongue.
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
i dont think that just people with same nationality should be together. whats wrong if an asian person be with an american or european one? nothing wrong in it. what matters here is feelings and what you would do for it.
• Romania
14 Aug 10
This is my opinion and I stick to it, no matter what. I will never agree on marriage between different nationalities, especially if children are born from that marriage. The child wouldn't know what nationality he is, where he belongs to and so on. And plus the cultural differences are a main cause of arguing in the family. And I don't like the assimilation neither. So this is why I am against interracial, inter ethnic marriages. Of course, you are free to disagree, but this is how I feel.
• Portugal
26 Aug 10
well for me children of those relation have both nationalities and they are richer that way. anyway thanks for share your opinion.
@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
Why not! If I have the money and enough reason to go there (if she is really worth it) I would cross continents just to be with her. =)
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
aww thats so cute^^ you are a romantic guy what is not easy to find nowadays^^ anyway i wish you find a girl that really loves you bcs the way you talk you really are cute^^ about me i would also do that for a guy if i really loved him^^ i think that we always must risk for love bcs we will never know if that person is right or not till we be together so if we feel maybe the person is the right one we must risk^^
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@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
I agree, we must take risks, that's what makes our life exciting, taking risks. =)) Thank you for the comment. =)
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
yes ^^ life wouldnt have any interest if we didnt take risks sometimes^^ thanks for your answer too^^
@jailo12 (332)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
yes, i will go to other country for love ..if i really love the person well i will do everything i could for that special someone ..and even if i have to cross the oceans and the seas just to see her i will do such for her ..^^
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
aww jai^^ thats so cutieee^^ love your answer^^ yes you are right if we really love someone we must do all to be with this person^^ even cross oceans like you say ahah^^ about me i would do the same^^ if we love why not? love someone truly is do everything for this person^^ and go to other country just for this person thats a big proof of love^^ if a guy did that for me i wouldnt let him go never ahah^^
@chinoxads (255)
• United States
24 Aug 10
If i have the money and time would go that country, because you never know what is going to happen, if you have the time and resources to do those things would do it.
• Portugal
26 Aug 10
yes you are right^^ we never know if we will lose something^^ so if we like someone from other country we must meet this person^^
@adhyz82 (36290)
• Indonesia
13 Aug 10
in my opinion, if she deserved for it, i will do the best and maybe extreme for her..maybe i can move to another city or even another country if in my mind, she is the best for me
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
yes ^^ for sure we must do that if we feel the person is the right for us^^
• India
13 Aug 10
I would do any thing for my love. I am ready to risk my life for love. I would go not only at other country but be it in hell also. I will go for my love.
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
aww so cute^^ so great to know that you would do all for him^^
• Jamaica
13 Aug 10
I would go to another country for love. I have friends and coworkers who have done so, one went to Germany and is happily married and one to Canada, I went there to spend some time with her and she seems to be very happy. However, they did not meet online, these men actually came to Jamaica on vacation and fell in love.
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
aww you would go? thats very sweet^^ so nice to know that they are all happy^^
@Porcospino (16437)
• Denmark
13 Aug 10
I know that it is possible to find love on the internet, because my husband and I met eachother online. We didn't travel far to meet eachother as we are both from the same country and even the same island. I am happily married, but if I were single and if I were in love with a person from a another country I would have to think carefully about it before I decided whether to meet the person or not. Sometimes meetings like that are a big disappointment, because the person is different from what you expected. I would also have to think about my safety I decide to meet a person that I only know from the internet. I am not saying that I would never do it, but I would have to think a lot about it before I made my decision.
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
yes you are right^^ is a decision that we need to think much before do that^^ also you are right about being disappointed bcs some people are different online than in real life so is hard for us to say how the person really is. but if i loved someone like that i would save money to meet him^^
@aaronfyzeon (1902)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
Yes I will go to his country just to meet him up unless he pays for my ticket. lol.. If I really love the person and I am sure for myself that he is the guy I want to be with then why not take my chances to be happy being with him.
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
yes aaron i agree with you^^ we must do all for love^^
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
12 Aug 10
I would do it, but for few days and will be back :) Just to see is the person the same, as it was online or the same as it was, when i met him for first :) It's interesting chance to meet the other part of your real YOU and it's kind of change, i like changes, they make life interesting :)
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
yes you are right^^ we need changes in life also if we love someone why dont risk? we just have something to win and nothing to lose by meeting the person near^^
@misalax (307)
• Ireland
13 Sep 10
It would take a long time before I would even think of that. Online relationships (some) don't even last long and that would crush you if you decided to go there and had everything planned. I'm on a long distance relationship, and I see my man everytime I go to his country for vacations, since that's my mum's home country too.
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I will definitely follow my love one wherever he goes. Even it is outside my country. For us to be together, of course seeing each other is a must.