Are video games good or bad?

Philippines
August 14, 2010 2:53am CST
Nowadays video games a very popular not only among kids but to adults as well. I have kids that can easily get addicted to these games and without my intervention, they would have probably done so. How do you cope?
5 responses
• United States
14 Aug 10
Not having children yet myself, I'm not sure how to cope. However there have been several studies done depending on the age of the child, how often they play and what type of games they play. It can be rather dangerous, and I've been to a three hour seminar that just was terrifying as some kids blur the line between reality and fiction... especially with sniper type games or grand theft auto. I have a 15 year old cousin who has a sniper shaped balloon, she just worries me to no end. Just limit the time and types of video games... have alternative things to do. Family nights, movie nights are always good too. Dance Dance Revolution and the like are okay games to get kids moving. It's sort of sad that video games takes away from the group of friends who get together to play football or catch in the yard, although with that there's always the possibility of a broken window and some places there really is no yard to play in.
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• Philippines
15 Aug 10
Yes this is why I keep a close eye on my kids. I wouldn't mind having a broken window. Thanks for the advise.
@DawGwath (1042)
• Romania
16 Aug 10
There is absolutely NO study demonstrating that video games are dangerous. Children and humans in general can get addicted to anything, from ice-cream to rollerskating, so you should be happy he's not addicted to heroin. Worrying and paranoia is of no use, instead parents should act like responsible adults and put limits to their activities, because children don't tend to have much responsibility. So, a child should be taught that school/education, physical activities and social activities are more important than a stupid video game and not to be neglected.
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
It depends on the genre of the games and the person's tolerance and self control. Some games have negative influence because of violence etc. but if the player can tolerate and have himself or herself not affected by whatever is given in the game, then it is okay. There are also games that are good, like word builders and logic/puzzle games that lets the player think before they act.
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I guess so. But I still prefer having them do other outdoor activities. Thanks for sharing..
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
I agree that being outdoor is better than being contained inside the house playing video games. (It's just that among video games, there are kinds that are good and others are bad.) First: since playing outdoors will also increase chance that children meets other kids so they'll be able to socialize and befriend them. If you look at some kids who weren't able to spend time with neighbors, they have a hard time being outgoing since they'll feel shy and uncomfortable. Second: It's ten folds healthier. The sunshine, the exercise, the air (unless you live in a very polluted district) and the energy is priceless. Last: There are video games with negative influence such as those I mentioned. And feeling reality through real outdoor games such as playing tag, jumping ropes, etc. creates a stronger broader mentality for kids since they are in the stage that they easily absorb what they perceive.
@cnetboss (2475)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
It really depends on the person playing. There are some who are just casual players that will play the game when they need relaxation. Some will play games more than doing more important things leading to addiction. And for some play games as a job description (e.g. games beta testers).
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
16 Aug 10
I must say that i used to play games alot when i was a teen. I would play final fantasy or something similar. i just played alot and sometimes, i would stay up very late when i am really into it. However, i used to do that only friday after school. i give myself a day per week to have some fun or go out with friends. In life, we need entertainment and hobbies. it's good from tie to time to do something we like but we can't forget our job or school work. Everything is good with moderation and some balance.
@talkbig (41)
• China
3 Sep 10
That's definitely true. The kids always can't control themselves and can be absorb by something easily. I believe that game rating system is necessary. And in my opinion,parents not only need to protect their kids from some adult games,but also teach their children which is right which is wrong and what is the life value. So in that way,the children will chase the right thing and have a real happy and memorable childhood.