my parents scold me a lot wat to do

@jazzhere (137)
India
August 16, 2010 2:34am CST
the world i live in is completely different from my parents they dont see things from my sight they keep me on scolding what should i do should i listen to them or become against them please help now i am big enough to appose
6 responses
@SexyEve (29)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
Most parents are overprotective.well in fact they are just concern about their kids because they love them so much.Maybe they are living in the past and are comparing today from yesterday,well,most parents do that you are not alone.What you must do is try to explain to them the realities of the world today,what you want to do and what makes you happy.But make sure that you are not going to hurt their feelings.You can also ask someone older than you are who understands to help you explain.You could also provide them books or teach them how to use the net so they will have an idea how kids to day are.You can also involve them in some of your activities in school where they can watch you perform like school plays,games etc.Pray that God will help them understand you.Good luck and God bless
@jazzhere (137)
• India
23 Aug 10
yes i should do that i will try it as my parents are the most over protective
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
16 Aug 10
Hi, Cool down and let's get your mind clear. Are you staying with your parents? If yes, then you need to have a good chat with them. Let them listen to your thinking and then you also have to listen to their advice,but it does not mean you have to follow exactly what they said. You are old enough to determine what is the best for yourself,but no matter what you have to consider their advices. As your parents, I believe they want the best for you too. They love you,that's why they care about you. Let's your parents cool down too!! Different people may have different thinking and as long as you are walking in the right path, everything is fine.
@jazzhere (137)
• India
17 Aug 10
yes i too hope so thnx for the support dear
@bwaybaby (903)
• United States
16 Aug 10
Well, arguing against them isn't going to get you anywhere. Listen to what they say, but if you feel strongly against what they're saying then try to rationally discuss it. Try to explain where you're coming from to your parents and how you feel. Rebel against parents does more harm than good.
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Respect whatever decisions they make. You are their child and they been through what you are experiencing right now. May be their just protective. No parents wants their children to do bad things or get involve with bad friends. Listen to them and understand them. Also tell them your side of the story may be they just don't understand you the way you do not understand them also.
16 Aug 10
Well, we do got the same problem with our parents they are in different timeline that we have living. What i did is I just confront my parents about it because there is wrong in trying and it is not right to talk back to our parents but we need to fight for our right.so i guess you must confront them ok?
@babyshei (97)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
parents scolds once in a while to remind us that we've passed our limitations. its also their way of showing their love to us. we should listen to them because they are our parents and they only want what's best for us, if your parents scolds you for nothing, you should talk to them in a nice manner and never to go against them