How badly do you want to be a Mom?

@tovk12 (234)
India
August 19, 2010 12:29pm CST
I want to have a baby of my own very much. I am not married and so cannot have a baby, but whenever i see any small child I want to have one of my own. And the feeling is so bad that it hurts very badly. Has anyone felt this type of feelings? What have you done to remove them from you or divert your mind? As for me i try to bury myself in work. Still it does not help.
5 responses
• United States
19 Aug 10
I have been blessed with two beautiful children so my response will only be by caring and not experience. I may suggest since you appear to have enough love to give, perhaps adopting, and or mentoring a child of need. Although this may be difficult due to finances and or policies against unwed mothers and or mentoring as you will not find it easy to return a child back home after a great day together. Oh I have a thought you may want to look at fostering, not only will you help a child in need of love and family but you will always be remembered as the one mommy who love. Good luck to you, and search the fostering online you may find that you would be approved as there are so many children in need of loving mommies.
@tovk12 (234)
• India
20 Aug 10
Thank you for the good advice. Will certainly look out on this option.
• United States
20 Aug 10
Coincidentally I saw this show yesterday where someone became a big brother, which is a mentoring program. I thought about you and from the show it was a very nice thing to do, so look into mentoring that would be a great area to start. Good luck to you, there are so many children who could benefit.
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
I've always love children since I was young although, I never thought about the child coming from me. I would always take care of my nieces and nephews. When my oldest niece was about a year old, my sister had to leave her with me for several months because of medical reasons. I enjoyed that and up to now, she still considers me as her second mom. I think you can try doing the same. It would help your loved ones too, if you can take care of their young ones.
@tovk12 (234)
• India
20 Aug 10
You are very lucky. Enjoy your time with the little one.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 10
Hi, Since you like small child,then you can get a godchild for yourself at this moment. As you are not married,it is impossible for you to have your own baby. Don't worry too much..when you have get married,then you will have your own child and will enjoy your motherhood.
@ashishp2c (286)
• India
3 Sep 10
well wanting to be a mom? How much hard i try but i never ever can become a mom, no i dont have any medical problems but still i can never be a mom as i am a male. lol yes i do want to be a dad, but i'm just 25 yet and also single. so once i get married i'll lobe to be a dad soon..... best of luck.
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
I wanted to be mom again very badly Im a mom of one but my daughter is turning seven January of next year and i really love to have another child again because im so fond of children especially when it's my own one. Me and my husband planned to have another baby but as of now, its still can't be given to us yet but we're looking forward about it and pray for it so hard so we could still get the chance to be a parent to one little angel once more. Don't feel bad about not having a baby this time of your life. In His time, you will get the blessing of being a mom. Just pray for it and im sure that you're going to be a good mother in the future. Good night and keep on smiling!