Beauty or Quality...!?!

....the common answer would be quality...what good is beauty if the quality is not assuming you are referring to characteristic when you say "quality"....beauty will wither sooner or later and we will all experience the stage where all our wrinkles appear all over our faces..but quality remains the same and will never fade, it may change but on totally.....however, i suggest, you follow what your heart desires..don't rush things..take your time to decide..

do not choose over these qualifications. I mean, beautiful wife is great! you will be so proud that youhave her with you all the time, but she will have the tendency to gain weight as well, she will not look as beautiful in a few years from now, will she? For the other one - quality, i'd say that you are the man here - you are supposed to be the one who should bring food to the table, what use will you have for ther qualifications? (which you did not mention, and i am just assuming she is intelligent and has great work, perhaps)... yes, she is good, she is great with her good traits even... but what is more important than feelings? I would say that when choosing between them, choose the one you have feelings for. You say they love you, what about you? who among them do you love?

I prefer to choose quality, while beauty won't last forever, getting married is for once for your life, and it last forever, sounds it is simple answer huh? but seriously it's totally right, you must choose who is the suit man, to accompany you 'till the rest of your life, anyway is this mean you want to be married in this near term?

I would go for quality. You could pick the one with the goos looks but deep down he could not be very interesting to handg out with or might now have a very bright future ahead of him. Of course this is your choice, but you do have to think about all of the options.

Literally speaking, I'd go for quality. Because when you live under one roof it's the attitude that matter most. What's the use of good looking if he doesn't know how to make you happy. Marriage is not an overnight affair, it is for a lifetime. You will live together until you get old. Good looks will deteriorate especially if he's not a good husband... But the final decision is in you. Just follow what your heart desires, if you think that either of them will make you happy, then go for it. It's your happiness that matters, not on the people around you.

I think beauty and quality should both be balanced. Beauty to quality should be in an 60-40 ratio. Ask your parents or family members which one they prefer. if they are neutral then ask your friends whom would they chose....HAPPY POStING

I think soulsshine, you should choose, who has more qualities rather than only physical beauty. Physical beauty will parish one day, but not the qualities or qualification in a person. A qualified person will help you a lot in running a family in the long run and if he looks ordinary, he could be groomed to look smarter. All the best.

beauty or quality? Is that enough? If you love the person so much you don't have to choose, listen to your heart.

If you ask about your options, you should first ask your conscience.Among the two options, whicever is most appropriate for selected, only your conscience that can be answered honestly.