Sometimes, do you think that your friend embarrass you?

United States
August 24, 2010 4:04pm CST
Hmm, I do feel that sometimes my friend embarrass me in the public. He might talk too loud when we were in the restaurant, especially we were chatting about girls, or other stuff. Other people might heard our conversation on the next booth or table. To be honest, that is his personality, and I can't say I have too much complaint. Friend is friend; he is my friend, I have to accept it too right? What about you?
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@akn1961 (1034)
• India
25 Aug 10
this is not always ,it happens in blue moon ,if friend is creating problems always then he cannot be friend ,he should be enemy ,thx for sharing yo
• India
25 Aug 10
it happens very rarely ,we should neglect such things this may be unintentional ,thx for sharing.
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
24 Aug 10
I had a friend who was very blunt when talking to people that it was embarassing. It was kind of rude if you were a stranger but it was just her. We are no longer friends only because she accused someone of domestic violence when I know it didn't happen. This kind of made me look at another side of her I hadn't seen.
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@megamatt (14292)
• United States
28 Mar 11
I think that will tend to happen from time to time. Especially with the wacky cast of people that I tend to consider as friends a lot of the time in my life. I don't think a lot of the things that some of these people do would slightly embarrass me too much, if they were not my friends. Friends and family for that matter, tend to embarrass us because we really know them. So yeah a lot of times, friends have tended to do things, that just make me want to hide my face, especially when people overhear. Still that might be a good thing to a sense. They would not be our friends if they did not really embarrass us. So that is really one of the great things about lives. Our friends would not be our friends if we did not take such an interest in what they do.
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
yeah same here,sometimes my friend try to say something about me which is funny but i think its not necessary to say it aloud with the people around us because the topic is so embarracing..
@jailo12 (332)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
hahahah ..you really have to accept your friend whatever he is ..just bear with him, you'll get use to it ..lolz
• Namibia
25 Aug 10
I have very bad and fake friends that only hang with me because i can hook them up with girls
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
I'm into different circle of friends, and I think having friends who will sometimes put you in an embarrasshing situations is inevitable. I also have this friend that claiming her honesty.and I have nothing against it, afterall, honesty is a virtue. And I think, it's not dishonesty but tactless rather. She could not understand that sometimes you have to know when to keep a secret especially in public. People have differences, and being a friend, she has so many good qualities, so being tactless is not a stain of her being a friend to us. When such situation arises, we usually find ways to turn it into a laughing stuff. We are all happy having her as friend anyway.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
25 Aug 10
I have often had times where i was embarrassed by a friend. You just never know what someone will do in the name of friendship. sometimes I think that a friend believes their antics are helping you. they think you will not be offended by what they say or do because they are friends with you. We have to accept our friends for who they are though. Isn't that why we want them to be our friends in the first place?
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
My friends are embarrassing sometimes like there are times when they talk and talk and they don't know what they're talking about. It sometimes embarrasses me whenever they're doing that. Most of the time they do that though is when they're drunk and whenever they're drunk, i'm also drunk so it's all good.
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
sometimes that's the essence of a fiend, they can say anything they want to us without any reservation we might get embarass or hurt. They feel like it is alright for us because they are confident that we know each other as friends. On our side, that's one way of knowing and adjusting our treatment to them. Understanding ang patience will come from us in order to preserve the friendhip.
• Canada
24 Aug 10
I have a cousin who does this a lot. When she does this I kind of try to hint to her that people are listening, since she tends to talks about personal things. And she talks very loud, I would almost consider it yelling. It's not that it embarrasses me, I'm just not the kind of person who likes having all the attention drawn to me.
@cajimenez (452)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
Try to tell your friend that some good manners won't hurt. He might listen to you and change his rowdy behavior.
@akn1961 (1034)
• India
25 Aug 10
Friends is friends my some friends want to the i obey the all time. but i feel is no good for our relatioship
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
I thought only girls talk too loud in public. hahahha. BTW i'm embarass too when my girlfriends talk too loud and everyone hears it. And sometimes they act like no manners when they are in bad mood. I just dunno bout the guys. But despite of it, you became friends, its natural you feel like that sometimes. Friends accept each other whatever the difference, good or bad.
24 Aug 10
Not much that a friend would do would embarrass me, except when someone swears loudly. It doesn't bother me but it can really upset other people and that embarrasses me. I also have a friend who was talking to me about pantyhose and suddenly lifted up her skirt to show me what she was talking about and we were in a public car park! I'm not sure if anyone saw, but I was quite embarrassed in case they did!