Girls Help Me.
By tatturoy
@tatturoy (139)
India
August 27, 2010 6:02am CST
Is there any way to find out, that my girlfriend really loves me. I sometimes feel my girlfriend doesnt love me and sometimes the feeling is just the opposite.Girls, could you please tell me,what kind of signs a girl shows to her lover? boys are also welcome to answer.
4 responses
@Crisfannum1 (314)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 10
For knowing her feeling, try to make her jealous by telling a story about your female friend, or even talk with them on the phone in front of her, then watch her face. If she shows a curious and disturbing face-like, well, it means she does care for you. But if she doesn't seem to care at all, then...sorry dude, probably she has no strong feeling towards you. Or... you could try to not call her first,or approach her,and let her be the one to call you.If she questioned about this, then it's a good sign.
@Libertywu (136)
• China
27 Aug 10
Dear Crisfannum, as a girl. Your method is really a good one. But i wanna to mention is whether she cares you does not mean whether she loves you. You can't come to an conclution from just one thing. If she really loves you, it can reflect by every detailed aspect in your daily life.
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
Jealousy does not necessarily means a person loves you.
Love should be more than words. It is placed in action. It does not have to be romantic all the time. It is beyond romance. But still romance must still be part of it. You'll never know if someone loves you. You just feel that you are being loved in many ways. When you are together, you must be sensitive enough to know and feel it.
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
You can tell a girl if she really loves you when she cares so much about you. You will feel her love when you kissed her and hug her. And she won't last a day without the sight of you or hear your voice. Before when I'm not yet married, I have many boyfriends but when I don't love him that much sometimes I don't want him to touch me or kiss me. I am sometimes shy to introduce him to my friends. I don't often call him or answer his call when I'm busy. And it's alright that we fight over things so I can easily break up on him. But with my true love boyfriend I do show him how much I love him. I write him notes to show how much I missed him for two days we haven't seen each other. LOL!
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
I cannot give you signs that will actually confirm that your girl really loves you.. Some people are just not showy with how they feel.., If she tells you she loves you.., then she probably does.., Girls don't usually lie about their feelings and if she does.., They are a lousy liar.., You can actually see the sincerity in their eyes.., so the next time you ask her if she loves you.., look into her eyes..=)
@babyshei (97)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
I would start by asking you "how long have you been together?" For me, time plays an important role when talking about relationships because i believe that love doesn't just happen, it would take time for it to develop. If you know your gf well then without a doubt you will surely know and feel deep within you that there's something wrong.
here's the thing, feelings are relative. It varies from person to person. There are some girls who aren't showy with how they feel and that doesnt mean they love you less. They do. Only they have their own ways of telling you. There is no ultimate sign that could guarantee you that a girl really loves you.There is a lot of things to consider.
