Is your lover your best friend?

@GemmaR (8517)
August 28, 2010 10:04am CST
My lover is the first person I go to when I need help, and the first person who comes to me if they need help. I think that's the way it should be in a relationship. If you are best friends, then you have every single level of friendship and love which is important in a relationship.
8 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
31 Aug 10
I don't have a bestfriend ever since and i don't usually tell secrets with my close friends but when i met my fiancee it's like i also found a bestfriend in her. I found comfort in her. She's always there to catch me and give me more strength in every issue im facing. She's everything to me.
@Libertywu (136)
• China
30 Aug 10
Yeah, i can classify my BF being my best friend. When i met account difficulties, he is the first person i wanna to talk. Of course the joy.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 10
he is the only one i can rely on so i might say that he is the only one my best friend. it is great to have another best friend, not only my boy friend alone. the more best friends the more i feel happy
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
My boyfriend became the best friend that I never had.., He is always there for me and He is the only person who understands.. I confide to him everything that I am feeling.., hardships and even the tiny things that bothers me., I thank God for giving him to me..there's nothing I could ask for..=)
@syvels (258)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
no, coz im single.. hahahaha but of course i would want my lover to be my bestfriend... i mean, we could be lovers... but i would also want him to be my bestfriend, someone who could be my everything.. :p
• India
29 Aug 10
Well it was the other way round for us, My best friend became my lover. She was someone who always believed that she cannot fall in love with her friend. But now we do realise that being best friends and now lovers can help a lot in deeper understanding of the other persons needs and provide for them. although moving from friendship to relationship can be a bit awkward at first, but will soon discover the rhythm if you have confidence and romantic inclination.
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
My husband is my best friend We have known each other for almost thirteen years now and I say we have become good friends and good partners over the years. I think we have matured together and have no inhibition discussing anything under the sun. I count on him and I think he counts on me too. Have a nice day!
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
28 Aug 10
I would say a definite YES. My lover is definitely my best friend. He is the first person I think of whenever I feel angry, feel sad. I know that he will be there for me at all times. I feel that it is very important that our lover is also our best friend as this is one way we can keep our relationship long.