Give Me money and i`ll be a good wife!
By dccell
@dccell (337)
Indonesia
August 29, 2010 7:00am CST
yes brothers and sisters the title i wrote is not what just came out from my mind but i heard that sentences came out from a mouth of a wife of one of my neighbours wife!
Really sad to heard that voice, since i know her husband is a good man a good husband he work hard eveyday but her wife habit is b=very bad , whenever the come her husband collect his salary she always rushing on using it for fun ( yes only for fun in my views ) buying a cloth,dress,unreally needed staff , hence her husband salary is not too big enaugh to support that habit the money remain in her not more than untill in the midle of the month or end of the month. nothing to save... few month back her husband terminated from his job and can`t effort to give her a good money any more, Dear all my fellow lotter plese tell me is it good to be that wife?
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11 responses
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
It makes me sad that a woman like that is very ungrateful to her husband at the time the husband needs her. I am also a wife and is not currently working. Whenever my husband gave me money, I make a point that I pay our bills first then buy things that we need. If there are extra, I save a little then ask him if he wants to dine out or watch a movie. But I'll never use his hard earn money for my own selfish need. I will always use it for the benefit of the family.
@dccell (337)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 10
thanks now i have a share thought from our female member, indeed she is ungratefull and another thing make us feel bad to see her face here is after having her husband terminated from his job, she start being ungood to her parent in law and the rest of her husband family members on that time her husband said please be good to my parent since i`ve been good for your parent ( give me money and i`ll be good wife, i can be good while i can`t fullfill my needs she replayed)
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
30 Aug 10
This wife is definitely as you said it b=very bad. She should be more supportive of her husband when her husband was terminated from his job.
In the first place, saying "Give me money and I'll be a good wife" should not even come out from the wife's mouth. I believe even if the husband were to give her money, she will not be a good wife in any way.
When she married her husband, she should marry him out of love and not just for the sake of money!
I hope that she will realise her mistake and love her husband more.
On the other hand, this is only one side of the story. We can step back and look at another perspective. Perhaps the wife has her reason for doing so? Well, we don't know but I just hope that this couple will have a happy ending.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
30 Aug 10
Not only this wife, but I think such behavior is unwarranted from any spouse though we find plenty of them all around us. One thing I’ve noted is that since many wives stay at home, they nag their husbands more for money to spend on themselves to get over the boredom of staying at home and having so little options of entertainment. Also, many husbands give so little quality time to their wives, so they just give the money to keep them happy. Gradually the demands keep on rising and creates a problem in the relation.
@kavitha123 (25)
• India
30 Aug 10
sorry to say that she is not a good wife. Good wife means first she is good friend and mother, teacher. Any of the situtation she is affection of him. That is good wife. this wife is like only money
@marianpantewynn (34)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
she's blowing her husband's pocket!!she's not a wife,she's a robber!
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 10
It's a wife who really did not
appreciate her husband. A wife
who is just selfish. By acting like
that, a wife who does not consider
her husband as a husband, but as a
money tree. As the wife should
appreciate the work of the
husband, but apparently self-
absorbed. I am very sorry for the
husband's.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
29 Aug 10
Welcome again
Some women, i mean wife are like that, running after money always, they can never be faithful to their husband, the home becomes a hell for them..
Thanks for sharing.
God bless you , cheers.
Professor. .
@amorlife1 (370)
• South Africa
29 Aug 10
This wife is mean! How can she say she loves him if all she does is spend his money on herself?! A good wife is supposed to use the money he makes to make both their lives better... make the home beautiful, take care of his needs, take care of the children, etc.
But then again, if she's like that, then I believe she would have been like that before they got married. So the man is blindly in love with her and can't see that she's not good for him... it's a sad story!
@bloemart (222)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
Disgusting that kind of woman is all that I can say. If she wants to have money, she should work for it. The money that is given by the husband is only for home expenses, but those wants like clothes, makeup, shoes, sandals of wife should be bought by her. It is not part of husband to give those if your budget is tight or if husband is only got minimum wages.
You have to talk about these things. Plan more and work more.
