Out of Control

August 29, 2010 9:52am CST
Did you ever feel any time...that the situation you are in, is completely out of control...you have no other option except being silent or accept the result even if you don't like it...
9 responses
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
My answer is a big YES! I have been there often. I've been to situations which were completely out of control. It happens to me at least 5 times a year and I feel very very bad about it. I can't explain things when it happens. I just got into those situations, and finds myself being out of control. I feel ashamed at times. That even if I did have the point, and thinks I'm right, it turns out to be horrifically wrong. I have a problem in defending what I believe in. I hate being pointed out. I hate being said things I know weren't true at all. I give up when that happens and it happens almost all the time.
30 Aug 10
So true...but unfortunately can't do anything about it...except thinking "ITS OUT OF CONTROL"...
• United States
31 Aug 10
Daily my friend as everyone seems to be so uptight these days that they are truly being irrational. I have so much on my plate these days that I truly for my sanity sake cannot place another drop in it. So simply what I do is basically take a deep breathe, let them finish their say and I am done. At least for the sake of my sanity.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
Yes,it is becoz we are trying to control our emotion or anger to explode that is why we choose to be silent rather than engaging into trouble. That is why some people who is temperamental get caught when they cannot control their emotions and we cannot blame them. In my case,i prefer to be silent,and when i know i am stable enough then i can make my comments back. happy weekend
@JasperTore (1275)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
Well, life is really full of ups and downs. Having things out of control was just part of our learning experience. We should really experience something like this to have ourselves know how to deal with it when it come again. Our plans sometimes don't end the way we want it to be. So we have to be used to things that are beyond our control and just have to accept what the results will be.
30 Aug 10
Yes many times, it gets to my nerves whenever this happens to me.
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Yeah I have experience that. What I did? I just pray, let go and let God's will be done. Every thing that happens here on Earth has a purpose. But of course it depends upon your choice, you can do something about your situation and make it more beneficial to you. You can express what you feel so people around you will know what you are in to. But accept the fact that things doesn't always come the way you want it. Let go and let God.
@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
29 Aug 10
There are several situations that has thrown me out of control.However, I do not get shocked and nervous for my failure to control the situation. I do look for all possible steps to curb it and get out of the crisis. I always try to keep patience and remain undisturbed till the situation becomes normal. I have hardly broken down to face such crisis events at any point of time in my life.
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
Oh, yes. That's whats been happening to me since I was born. It's hard but I'm trying to get a grip on my life.
@l4ur33 (72)
• Finland
29 Aug 10
that is literally all of my life.