Does it matter to men?

@hushi22 (4941)
August 29, 2010 4:34pm CST
I wonder how men feel every time their gfs recall some stuff about their women from the past due to insecurity. DOes it annoy them? Why and/or why not?
6 responses
@jamuls (530)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
my girlfriend loves to ask about my past. i do try to answer her honestly but most of the time, i try to avoid it. it's a no win situation for me whenever this interrogation starts... let's just say that i usually end up sleeping on the couch. :) it's really annoying! i can't say this to all you women folks but all the girls i've been with always ask me about my exes. why??? does this mean that i should ask about their "x-men" too? i don't care who or what they've been through, what's important to me is that i have you now and i'll try to do my best to keep it that way. so there! :)
@juggerogre (1659)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
I kinda feel happy when my girlfriend starts talking about my exes. She looks cute when she's jealous. Also its a sign for me that she needs my attention. It doesn't really annoy me. Its really rare for her to be like that so its really okay.
@rjjavier (42)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
it depends on the relationship he had with the woman...i never ask for his experiences regarding his past relationships..but he's the one opening that topic,and when he does i know it doesn't matter to him anymore..past is past..whatever he feels is normal the same way we feel about our ex's.and a matter of fact..whatever we do to avoid it..they are part of us
@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
I don't like that ,, she starts to compare and to make assumptions about non real things .. I like to live my life as it is new life :D
• Canada
29 Aug 10
It would annoy my boyfriend. When we started going out he would ask me a bunch of questions about past relationships and things like that. I would ask the questions back and he wouldn't answer them. Now he doesn't ask me those things. He doesn't want to know, he would get too jealous.. So we just don't get into that anymore, those kind of topics are strictly off limits!
• United States
29 Aug 10
I can't speak for all men but can certainly say that it is not often that I do ask about my boyfriends ex's. When whenever I have he certainly will give me a straight answer, but I can see from his expressions that he is not completely comfortable about doing so. Really I feel the same way and do not think much about his past is really relevant to me. As it is what occurs during our relationship that matter more to me.