do you believe things going to turn up just as you expect them to be?

@amelly (1558)
Malaysia
August 29, 2010 6:13pm CST
as i'm growing up and experiencing life like others, i always expect things to turn out well or better than that..i have an alomost perfect life..surely there's ups and downs in my life but it is not as bad as others..at the moment.i'm very happy with my 3 best friends..i'm very loyal when it comes to friendship and i appreciate it as much as i can..i find it hard fo me to get a nice, understanding friends that will be there for me in any condition..i didn't say all the time but after all these years..i finally found true friends.......
12 responses
@sjhaeki (798)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
hey, i think if you believe that it will happen to you or come to you then it will. also there's nothing wrong with expecting the unexpected. perhaps you were doing things that gave you the life you have now, because nothing would happen if believing isn't partnered with perseverance and work.
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 10
yes...i think if we think positively we might lead our lives in a good way...
@juggerogre (1659)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
I want things to turn up as I expected or wanted them to be. But I don't think it is always possible. There are things that are beyond my control. But as long as I can control the outcome then I will gladly do it. But if not then I'll just pray that the outcome will not be that bad.
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 10
yeah..i mean we can't have anything we want t but we can try though..
@dodo19 (32571)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
30 Aug 10
I do have faith that things will turn up for the best. I never know how they will turn up. It might not be the way I thought they would end up being, but I just believe that something will turn up and come my way and it will be for the best.
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
31 Aug 10
yes..everyone wants the best in their life in term of relationship, finance, happiness and many others..
@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
There are some things that go well according to our will. But not all things happen the way they are supposed to be. So I have prepared myself for that. Disappointments always happens but it is something that can be taken lightly. We can't just be taken down by simple problems. We have to overcome it and make something good from it. I am glad and happy for you that you seems to be lucky because all the things you want happens the way you want it to be. And you have 3 loyal friend...very good bonus. Be thankful to God for what you have. keep it up.
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
31 Aug 10
yeah..i do feel thankful to god of what i have at the moment..and i hope others will be happy as i am in any way..yeah..life can be devastating at times but there is always a solution to any problem
@jpso138 (7844)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Well, I could not really say that I have a perfect life. But this past few years, it find life great and wonderful. I have realized that its all up to you, as what you want your life to be. Problems come and go and how you take them will eventually what will make you happy or sad. Positive thinking is the key as well as accepting that in life problems happens but there is always a solution. Being happy and great is a choice, if you accept them and face them with the right attitude, there is no problem that hard. But if you face them with negative thoughts already, then you will surely find it hard and most likely things will turn out wrong. I do have friends but I believe in quality rather than quantity. I realized that there are friends who are only friends when times are great, there are also those that stick with you no matter what... As I have said, all things are a matter of choice... Best to you always!
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
31 Aug 10
yes,,i also have such friends before..who supported and be with me when i'm happy but didn't be with me when i;m in despair..it is so unlucky for me at that time..but i try to be more optimistic and i know god is great..now i got my 3 best friends who love me and willing to be by my side in thick or thin
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
lucky for you that things turned out that way you expect it to be. though mine is not the same as yours, but there is one very special thing i can be proud of. i met someone who is perfectly fit for me. someone who had became a friend, a person to lift me up, a person who but me back to the ground when i am to high a person that is always at my side through thick and thin. a person who became a best friend to me and after knowing her i married her and soon be celebrating our 8 years of marriage. life may not be perfect but if you live it with people you love and cared for its worth it.
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
31 Aug 10
aw...that is so sweet..hope i can find such person in my life..hope you enjoy you life now and then..well,at least that thing turned out well right
• United States
29 Aug 10
For the most part I think things will turn out well like a believe they will. But I will never know, only guess and hope. I have also made true friends and am thankful I did. Life is good for the most part. Have a great day?
@amelly (1558)
• Malaysia
29 Aug 10
have a great day to you too...yeah..i think we should be thankful of our life no matter how it is because there are more people that less fortunate than us
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
things may turn out good or bad,in what you expected it to be.there are also moments in our lives where we can't control things to happen that will lead to bad effects. whatever it is,we just have to live life on how we liked it to be. live with every moment with a smile on your face and things will be okay.
• Indonesia
30 Aug 10
hello amelly, it`s become a nature for our life that sometimes this life isn`t fair. personally, i have to deal with it everyday because i`m a sensitive person so when some condition turn into worse it will affect my mood. all i have done is to accept it, that everyday is never same as yesterday, so i have to move on.
@mattic (282)
• United States
30 Aug 10
It's pretty interesting that I have found those who expect good things to come their way, usually are right. Oddly enough, so are those who expect only bad things. It seems we trend towards actions that will fulfill our beliefs.
@jhyan007 (467)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
...right, if you are positive enough in facing the trials in life, sooner or later you will just realize that what you want, you already got...=)
@dollar3235 (2063)
• India
30 Aug 10
It all depends on your luck. I never used to wait for things to turn out in my way, I always work harder to make things the way I want them to be. However, there was something in my life, rather I should say, the most important thing in my life, where I felt helpless (that was my first experience in my life) and I had to expect things to turn out well. I waited and waited for a long time, things became worst with the time. Now I feel I could have tried to make things easier for me as I used to do in past. I took only one chance in my life and it ended all my happiness. All I can say now, I was not lucky enough to have that important thing. People say, regret is one of the worst things that you could have as a human being, I would say, never ever expect things to turn out well in your life, try to work harder to make things easier for yourself, that's the best thing that will keep you away from regret. That one chance of my life caused me to regret for rest of my life...I wish, I could get another chance in my life...