A friend of mine needs some help...

@tutul0045 (2630)
India
August 31, 2010 4:04am CST
Hello friends, I have a friend whom i met in internet few years ago. She is living with her family which consists of her husband and 3 children. Very sadly her husband is out of work and a drunk. Her kids are all teenagers and are not making much money. She is in need of extra cash to meet up her daily needs. She is running a child care and is also a cancer patient. I talker to her and I told her about this site and she promised she will have a look. As she is American and she has access to Internet, I want you guys to help me with ideas on how can she earn more from internet. I have already told her of this site and I would like to share more with her about online income or some thing which u guys can suggest. She can't work full time because she has to go to the hospital 4 times a week. Your help & suggestions will be highly appreciated & can save 5 lives. Cheers, Tutul
5 responses
@mentalward (14691)
• United States
31 Aug 10
I'd have to say that your suggestion to her of joining myLot is the best one for making money online, as long as she knows that she has to be very active and read and abide by all the rules so her discussions don't get deleted. MyPoints.com is also good for earning, although you can't earn as much as myLot unless you buy merchandise through them which increases your points which are turned into gift cards when you reach specific point levels. If she is crafty in any way, she can join Etsy.com and sell her crafts there. Of course, all of these are free to join. To be honest, I'm only interested in saving four lives, not five. As you say, her husband is unemployed and a drunk. How is it that he can drink when they need money for necessities? That is something I do not condone. He needs to get up off his butt and get a job to take care of his family. It should NOT be up to his ill wife! If anyone makes money from the internet, HE should be doing it until he can find full-time work. Or, is it that he is so incompetent that he cannot support his family? Your friend could get Social Security Disability or SSI (Supplemental Security Income) if she is not already on it. If she has cancer, she would be approved immediately as long as she brings the proof of her health when she applied. Her husband should apply for Unemployment Insurance if he is not already on it. Your friend could get Social Services to help her with her kids until they are out of school but she and her husband would have to go and apply for it, not just her, unless she kicked him out.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
31 Aug 10
That would be a great help, I am sure. And I absolutely agree with you on the 'four lives' thing.
@sujaysen (594)
• India
31 Aug 10
It is very sad to hear this news. Anyway, I can give her some genuine referral link so that she can earm some money from that site. But as she is from USA, I do not know whether all of those link will pay her or not. But she can try and read their FAQs. If she can write article, she can join textbroker.com as that site is not so tough as any other article writing based site and they accept only the USA people. So, I think she may be helped in some way by this online jobs. May God bless her to overcome this unfortunate life time at the earliest.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
1 Sep 10
Hi Sujaysen, I will let her know about the sites or if she joins this site, I will ask her to contact you. Thanks! Cheers, Tutul
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
I am an online English teacher and I am earning money from it. I have students who are learning English as a second language. Your friend can always earn money from teaching students. One student will pay you at least 70 dollars a month for their class. Teaching English online is a good way to earn.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
1 Sep 10
Hi, Ohh thats great. U let me know how and in which site it is. I will forward it to her and she can definitely teach English. I have talked to her and i can say her English is good enough and kids can learn. That will be very helpful if she can make that much money by sitting at home. Cheers, Tutul
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
31 Aug 10
I really appreciate your concern Tutul and my heart goes out for your friend who has been living it all. I think she needs to be composed, calm and let go of the hangovers, which I know is tough but not unachievable. There are several sites that help us earn. We do not earn handsomely from one single site. It's actually the conglomeration of the earnings from several paying sites that help us with a decent earning at the end of the month. While mylot is the best, there are several other sites that help us earn also. Giving one link that would guide her through some sites. Good luck and keep me updated. http://mimpi.weebly.com/
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
1 Sep 10
Hey mimpi, Nice to see you after a long time. Hope u r doing ok ! Hmm.. well thank you very much for sharing the link and i will forward it to her. And you are right in saying that you cant earn a lot from a single site. Also i have to be careful while forwarding links to her as i don't want her to get cheated online. Mylot is safe and most of the mylotters are reliable. And she is a wonderful human being too. She will enjoy her time here. I'm doing my part for her as a friend. Hope god helps her in this difficult time and she gets some relief. Thanks again for everything! Cheers, Tutul
• United States
31 Aug 10
Being an active member you do know that many of do several online ventures to survive on a daily basis. So make sure you guide to those true members her who literally spend their time effectively and not just gibber gabbing to get referrals under their belts. Since you want your friend to succeed perhaps the best advice would be to ask you if something is truly worth her time or yet another scam. Until she learns the ropes she may fall quite a bit. As for her husband it is unfortunate that he chooses to be a drunk as no one deserves the daily sufferings we endure to have it wasted on a drunken man. Perhaps he wants to change although I did not read this in your discussion, as take for me instances I am now unemployed for 9 months with absolutely no form of income, I am losing my home, my phone being blowned by creditors and have a student loan of 140K I too have young adult children and to date have thankfully have not resorted into drinking as an out. So your friend no matter how much she tries unless this area is corrected I am afraid she will be losing a battle. As the worries and stress just from the cancer is way too much to handle.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
1 Sep 10
Hi, I'm sorry to know about your financial woes. But i appreciate your courage and yr wisdom that u want to keep hanging and not giving it up. I'm a member of only this site which pays. I don't have much idea about online earnings either. So the last thing i would want is she getting cheated in some site. I have talked about it to her and she said she will be careful. Also i would like to add that the chances of her husband working again seems very weak and she has to do all the hardwork. I know it sounds dreadful for a cancer patient looking for work and that too for 4 other people is pathetic. But its the fact and she is fighting it off everyday. I will do my part for her and pray that she gets better soon. Cheers, Tutul
• United States
31 Aug 10
First of all, she sounds like a very strong woman. I cannot imagine or even try to compare my life to hers. My wife and I lived off of the internet for over 6 months after I got out of the military. A great source of income is to find things that you can sell on eBay for a huge profit. Thrift shops, yard sales, etc. It takes a little time to get used to what sells and how much to pay for things, but once you get the hang of it, you can make some real money. Another option are the survey sites that are out there. There are a lot of useless ones that never pay you, but one that I use is mysurvey,com. You are guranteed to get something for each survey before you are disqualified from the survey. Tell her good luck for all of us!
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
1 Sep 10
Hi devil I will let her know. Yes she is mentally very strong because despite all these adversities she is fighting and have not given up. Her husband is not helping at all and the kids are small too. She is a lovely human being and she deserves lot better. I will be doing my part and iam sure her other friends are also helping her too. I'm very thankful to you guys as well. Cheers, Tutul