Dating Do's and Don'ts

August 31, 2010 11:16pm CST
here is what i believe the do's and don'ts during dating (kind of mix them both): first - there is that obvious first impression. dress nice and always be on time on your first date. no one wants to date an irresponsible slob. to go the other way, tell your date partner how nice they look. flatter and compliment them. people tend to put a lot of effort on how they look during a date so being told they look nice is always good to hear. second - have FUN!! that is all there is to it. make your date as fun and interesting as possible. be interested and interesting. oh yeah, if you feel like you don't want to see/date that person anymore, TELL THAT PERSON. being lied to and hopes kept alive is an evil and malicious thing to do. of course let them know the nicest way possible. third - date the people that you enjoy being with or attracted to, whatever your friends might say. stay positive even though your date might not end well. you just might meet nice people and make new contacts. fourth - always have a PLAN.. you must know interesting places, know the way around, and of course know what type of activity you want to engage in with your partner. fifth - make dating happen for yourself. people will not come to your doorstep and ring your door/house out of nowhere. dating requires positive action so go out there and meet people, as many people as you can. it also will help your chat and flirting techniques. but of course you don't want to get to ahead of yourself so you won't be call as a total player. sixth - surround yourself with positive people that are also dating. negative friends who don't condone dating or don't understand it will only lower your expectations and make you feel negative. well that's about it. feel free to add anymore if you wish.
1 response
@capiks (40)
• Malaysia
1 Sep 10
I see. Good post indeed. Did you write this using your real experiences? I personally feel bad about dumping a person that you don't like. Yes, it is true that telling the truth is better, but to make him/her suffer? Maybe you're right about that..
• Malaysia
6 Sep 10
yeah... thanks man.. well anybody would feel bad when you want to dump someone but i think its for the best.. not all platonic relationship can work..