Have you ever slapped your partner on the face?

Philippines
September 1, 2010 10:10am CST
Hi.., we all know that relationships are not perfect.., we all experienced dealing with anger and temper over petty quarrels that we cannot avoid at times.. whatever was the reason.., But have you ever tried losing your temper on your boyfriend/girlfriend and you were not able to stop yourself.., then your handed landed on heir cheek? I haven't tried that one yet.., i did teasingly with my man.., and he laughed at me.., he said i love doing what i see in movies..,=) and he never slapped me even once.. thanks God..
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7 responses
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
one time, i got really mad at him. BECAUSE HE FORGOT ABOUT ME! i was waiting for his text message until 3am. worrying. and scared,cause he's in the beach without me! LOL so when he came to my house a few days later. he was saying sorry and all.but i was so angry i slapped his face. i, too, was shocked! :))) but i didnt show it. i got scared cause i thought he was angry, because he suddenly stopped talking and he wasnt looking at me anymore. i thought he was gonna leave me without a word, but instead he faced me again and said sorry, again :)) that's why i love him so much now :))) he really loves me :)) so cute :))
• Portugal
2 Sep 10
aww your boyfriend is so cute^^ im sure he saw in your face you didnt mean to hurt him and just was worried with him^^ so cute that he did that and really cared for you^^ he wasnt even angry with what you did^^ most part of guys would be^^ seems just like my friend when i slap his face with much strength joking he also didnt say anything to me. he got sad and me too bcs didnt mean to hurt him but he didnt be angry with me^^ im sure he saw i didnt mean to hurt him^^ and your bf was too cute too^^ everyone wants a bf like yours^^
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
cute!! your boyfriend really loves you enough to disregard what you did.., he knew his mistake and probably didn't mind at all what you did.., because he was more focused on you accepting his apologies..=)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
yes. you're right :) it was SO cute and so sweet. :)
@thesids (22448)
• Bhubaneswar, India
3 Sep 10
Hey Deve :) I believe that hitting someone on the face or anywhere in anger is quite inhuman. And when you love someone... things are going to be worse. Because you are going to see him/her more often than anyone else and so it is definitely going to start souring the relation that you have. Yes, I agree that dis-agreements would take place and this would lead to quarrels. But I try (and hope that I always) keep the things to verbal rather than getting physical. What they show in movies is just for the sake of making money and many a times it is not even near to reality. So be careful with what your fantasies are.
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
right.., I am very much aware with that.., even if sometimes.., i tend lose temper.., i learned to stay silent about it.., i don't want to keep on talking when i am mad.., i don't want to sound like my mother.., and i keep in my mind that prolonging any arguments will not do any good..=)
@thesids (22448)
• Bhubaneswar, India
4 Sep 10
Yes, it is always good to have a control on yourself and your emotions to keep a cherished relationship move on smoothly
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
It is seldom happened on bf and gf relationship but it does usually on married couples. There are lots of situation why the wife or the husband was being slapped. On my part as a husband I did it (twice) already to my wife and regretted it seriously after. It was not my fault after being warned her of not hitting me first. Mu partner is a nagger type of woman. I don't like trouble. Every time she got mad or would nag at me I would stay cool, silent just not to make the trouble big that resulted to shouting and throwing of anything. Whenever I would go silent, she would force me to talk or say something. When I started saying something and she caught cornered on her own statements she is always the one who hit me which could triggered my anger that would boil my temper that resulted to slapping. She would have stop after I slapped her but she kept on nagging and answered some punch that resulted to big fight. That happened twice hope that would never be happened again.. I hate trouble because I could not do things normally when there would be trouble happened between me and my wife... Mobhomeir here...
• Portugal
2 Sep 10
ahah thats funny that he says you love to do what you see in movies ahah im like that too im a bit childish and needy actually^^ i just want to go near my bf and say to him i love him all the time, and that he sings to me and that he hugs me and kisses me and say im the only one ahah also tease him too and beat him in joke sure^^ slow like girls do in movies^^ i wish we can do all that when we are near each other bcs right now we live far^^ anyway slap him i can do as joke but in reality i would slap his face if he cheated on me. i slap my friend's face before as joke but i beat with much strength by accident. he was sad but didnt say any bad word to me. i guess he saw i didnt mean to hurt him :) and we were ok later on^^
@voldrox (7205)
• India
1 Sep 10
Hello deve_annrn, I don't i can ever slap my girlfriend. I don't get that angry, neither can i ever get.
• United States
1 Sep 10
Like yourself, I've also only ever slapped my boyfriend (ex, now) in the face teasingly ;) I only did it for fun, and quite lightly as well. Oddly enough (I don't know what I was thinking... masochistic thoughts, maybe?) I asked him to slap me back... he said he couldn't. Good answer. I've never had a boyfriend slap me in the face... If I ever do, I'm definitely leaving the relationship.
• United States
1 Sep 10
I have never slapped my boyfriend and in turn he has never slapped me. The "thought" comes into my head, passes by in a breeze as "it's not even a slight possibility of happening". Slapping someone in the face is SUCH a huge gesture of disrespect and one sideness that it's probably one of the greatest insults you can give to someone. If someone ever slapped me in the face I don't know if I'd ever want to talk to them again. It's rude and it's not something that you do to the people that you love, no matter how angry or ridiculous you both are being.