While all them are married I'm still single, I'm happy how about them?

@rhodzptc (1319)
Philippines
September 2, 2010 11:28am CST
This is the questions that comes onto my mind after I have seen the pictures all of those my ex-boyfriends. They have all family now, while I still remain single. As I continue browsing their picture I've seen one of the picture of my ex who has already a wife and a kid in which he posted one of our pictures and then he put comment on this picture "If only I choose her, I think I would have a happy relationship". He has a family and I don't know the reason of him posting our old pictures together. I'm already happy being single but I would get married to but not now and the question is aren't they happy with their life? If not maybe that is their Karma for cheating on me when we were together. How about you, do you think your ex-boyfriends is happy at this moment?
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13 responses
@greenline (14868)
• Canada
2 Sep 10
Yeah, life is the work of Karma. Yet, if one hurts another creature, one will be hurt too at some time. So, if one cheats others, one will get cheated too. So, those who had cheated on you will some day be cheated too. It is just a matter of sooner or later. You are having very good wishes and good will to others ! So, difinitely, you will have the happiness some day ! Best wishes to you !
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@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
hahahhaa! yeah that's karma girl! but then wish him luck and to his family as well. so that they will live happy as happy as you are. God has a reason why hes not the one. and i know right now that you knew already what is it. right? so stay pretty and happy huh. :)
• India
2 Sep 10
Hi, I didn't have a boyfriend. That is because I am rigidly straight. But I had a girlfriend who did dumped me. Frankly, I feel relieved thinking that we are not together anymore. At first, I had difficulties coping up with the break up. I think she is happy now. As a matter of fact, we all forget. We need to forget in order to move on. But there is this thing. The person who cheats often carries a resentment somewhere in his or her heart. It needs extraordinary strength and indifference to brush away such a thing. It is often quite disturbing. But then, it is them who chose to be that way. I am still single, happy and contented. Now I know what I missed when I was in a relationship. I traded my happiness and freedom in exchange of pretended affection. It was such a foolish act. But as I am over now, I can enjoy my life to the maximum extent possible. Thanks. God bless you
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
In life we need to let go of the stones in order to find the real gem. But too often we get caught up on keeping and polishing the stone when a gem is just right around the corner waiting to be discovered. When someone dumps us we think we can't live without them lol that is a big lie thing is things could get better and you are saved from a disastrous relationship when you learn to let go.
@rhodzptc (1319)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
You guys are great I really appreciated those lessons I've learned from you today. I'll remember this quotes guys.
• India
3 Sep 10
@candyfairy Absolutely. Letting go is a skill, a strategy to live our life to fullest. You don't always get what you want. In such a situation you just adjust yourself to the situation. There are two things running simultaneously. Our expectations and our achievements. We have to adjust either of them to ensure an optimized outcome. There is no such thing that a man can't live without. This has been proved again and again. It's just a forced, unexpected detachment that makes things appear like that.
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@jamed28 (1910)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
Well this maybe an isolated case. Not all ex-bfs are unhappy about their marriage and hope they married their ex. Just maybe you are happy now as single but who knows, maybe when you got married you might end up like your ex bf, posting pictures with comments like that.
@rhodzptc (1319)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
In some point you are right, but at this point I'm talking about their status in life I know that someday I might encountered problems with my future husband but I did not cheat on any one like they did to me, do you think that I would regret it?
• India
2 Sep 10
He just maybe getting bored of her. The ones who are married i guess look for more opportunities to come out of marriage than stay in it. Frankly speaking i like your status as single and i am sure many other guys would like that too. He just misses you but if you had been the wife then he might have played the same game with you.. But one can't completely say whether it's true or not... Cheers!
@rhodzptc (1319)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
Thanks for the reply, well than explains well and I think you're point is right... Lucky for me I let him go rather than keep him and be with him.
@MDG2211 (711)
• Argentina
7 Sep 10
Honestly I do not care to know about my former partners, and I do not want is more I do not care, that investigate or find out. But if it is true that sometimes even if you hear or you want to hear news of your partners past and the memories return, or view a photo and you have in mind the idea of how your life would have been next to this or that . They are part of your past and as a human being who is alone in life one wants to find a soul mate, and when you think you have it and lose it, and on top then you hear news of your new life many times you get angry , Ultimately depresses you think it is part of the karma to which you refer.
@thaMARKER (3098)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
i guess most of my high school acquaintances are married and college friends are having kids by now. i don't really know if they're happy but as for me.. i can't imagine myself getting pregnant and being tied. seeing the same person everyday of my life is something i don't want to happen.. for now. all of my exes are now married. they even ask me to come or be the godmother of their kids. wonderful. well i guess they're happy and so be it.
• Mauritius
3 Sep 10
my ex... well i dont really know what he become... actually our relationship suddenly was broken because of family issues due to religions , but till this happen evrything turn upside down for both of us... I really hope he had found someone nice, as he was a gud person to me but was helpless towards his family... But in your case you should not worry about ur ex okay since if they chossen others than you and now still showing your pics with them so they regret and you should be produ to be single rather than throwing yourselve to anybody out there just for the sake of showing to the world that you got the ring to your finger... stay happy and take your time to find someone and be happily married....
@asiregar (866)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
3 Sep 10
I was married, let the memories of the past need not be kept in mind as it would be unfair to our partners that now if still imagine or compare with the past
• United States
2 Sep 10
I am no girl but I have to say guys sometimes move on very fast, other do not? But for cheating on you? May they rot in hell! lol! You are very pretty and if they cheated on you them that is their loss! What idiots!
@kingparker (9700)
• United States
2 Sep 10
It is up to you to find out whether they are happy with their significant another half. But, I do believe in Karma, what goes around comes around. If they cheated on you before, they should know better what will happen next. So, since you are happy, you don't have too much worry about whether they happy or not.
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Frankly sistah I do not bother thinking about the what-ifs. I believe things happen for a reason...and the reason is we were not meant to be.It's nice to hear news of them once in awhile but that's just it. I am a single gal too and I am happy just being single and I will keep my fancy free until God leads the right man to me. I'll let God worry about it lol after all He is the one who knows his plans for me. So I can sit everyday worry free about why I am not yet married when everyone else is. What I believe in my heart is at the right time and that means in God's own sweet time He will lead the right man when both of us is ready. I trust in His sense of timing...lol don't ya?
@kquiming (2999)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
i don't know...and i've never bothered finding out. i guess part of me might be wondering that, but nah, i don't think it matters anyway...if they're happy, then good for them.... if not, then it's not my problem. lolz. hehe.