I Think I'm In Love With My Buddy

Philippines
September 3, 2010 2:01am CST
Things aren't turning out well for me, I think I'm falling in love with my buddy, my partner, my friend whom I even call "BROD". When do you reach the limitations of being friend? When one falls because you've found what you've been looking for in your life? Or when you pretend all your life as being the best buddy? Sometimes, its ruthless to be honest with what you feel, it can be chaotic at the end. But living in your shell is like being imprisoned of the affection of which you've been entitled to claim as your right. But what if? Ifs and buts are two conjunctions that are horrifying!!!
4 responses
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
its ok if you love your best friend^^ maybe he feels the same way for you^^ why dont you tell him how you feel? :) talk with him bcs if you dont you might be losing the opportunity to be happy^^ just say how you feel and if he doesnt feel the same is ok bcs at least you were honest and tried^^ that way you wont regret later^^ just talk with him ok?^^ and then tell us what he said^^ if he also likes you^^ i wish you the best^^ go say it ahah^^
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
i followed your advise and it was effective. Though we better stayed as best friends, it made me to become a better man. An now I am free of the buts and ifs. I can't help but to relate to the song "FRIEND OF MINE".
@sinaj292 (602)
• India
3 Sep 10
This is the thing that alway will happening ...but no one believe this first ......... but that is the true thing to have in our life.......
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
You make sense and it inspires me then. We pretend not to see true things that happen in our life and sometimes we deny the fact that it is happening as well because we are afraid of the consequences and outcome.
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
There is no way for you to know what will happen if you keep on worrying about things which has not happened yet. I know there are risks of getting your heart broken in the end. But isn't love worth the risk? Just be sure of your feelings first before making any decisions.
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
I was sure of my feelings back then and was right with my decision to confide what I felt. Now, it's the bitter turn. But I don't have any regrets. Though there are some difference right now, what is best then that I got the chance of loving a special person like him.
@advokatku (4039)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 10
that love knows no bounds. The temptation will be disturbing and thrilling love someone who played with him. And when love blossoms grow, anyone would feel, though he pretended to deny it.