life is unfair :( read this story please :( sad love story

sad love - sad love couple
Portugal
September 5, 2010 10:48am CST
hi guys. i want tell you my story. few monthes ago i met this guy. we were like best friends. i met him in a website and he didnt know much people yet so we became best friends^^ we talked much, shared much. then when he started to meet more people he started to dont care much to talk with me. he started to not just care about talk with me but also about others too and is ok but i didnt want he forgot me right? he was filipino, im portuguese and we spoke in english so when he was talking in his language with other people was like sometimes he forgot i was there. then days pass and he started to ignore my messages and talk with other people only in his language but he still said sweet things when we argued and then he said he doesnt want lose me and those things. then he met this girl. and fell in love with her :( she said one day that he loved me and he said ohh why you tell? it was a secret and was like putting shy emos and i was like no you dont love me you love her and then he said he loves her and when i said i hate him he said dont be on hating me and then he left but before he was saying i love you to everyone saying i love all in different ways like excusing himself for what he did. then he said it was all the girl's idea. also when she saw i was angry with him she said it was her fault. anyway i said to my friend i didnt like her attitude bcs also other day she said i love you to him in english and he said it to her too and they never said those things to each other in english. they talked much already that time and were good friends, she was taking my place as his best friend i guess :(, and she said that she loves him and she knew how much i loved him bcs everyone knew my feelings for him. and he said it to her too and seemed they were like provoquing me. bcs one day she humiliated me saying i talked with her bf saying she likes someone else in her bf yahoo. and i said i didnt i dont even have your bf yahoo and she said i say it to her bf and they almost broke up bcs of me. she said im fake bcs pretended i was her friend and then was saying to ian i didnt like her. i just said to my friend i didnt like her attitude bcs she knew how i lovd him and created that joke of him saying he loves me and then was all a joke. sure noone would like this kind of joke. she said she knew this bcs she used his account when i told him i didnt like her attitude. she was the fake one pretending to be nice to me and then humiliated me and even said that lie. my friend ian, the one i loved, was there while she was saying all that bad to me and didnt even defend me he said he doesnt want to put himself into it. i said ian i never talked with her bf about that. and is true. only thing i ever said to that guy was hi and how are you bcs she wanted i met her bf before. i messaged her bf saying you know i didnt talk with you in yahoo i didnt even know your yahoo and he said that a girl called catarina, that is my name, messaged him in that site chat and said that that girl, that was his gf, liked someone else. so i told this to my young sister and she said that for sure that girl created a profile and i think my sis is right i also thought that before tell my sis. bcs one day that girl and guy i liked were like using other names for sure it was her even she said she wasnt, bcs the guy was that guy i liked bcs he said it was him, and the girl was her bcs he called her a name that he always calls her. and she was pretending asking things about him like she was worried. so she could had created other account and do that bcs she was only one winning something lying about me. that way ian would believe her and maybe would be angry with me i dont know what was her idea. anyway that guy i liked had in his profile in a relationship, had that girl's pic and her bf didnt even thought it was strange? that girl even said to me before she had feelings for my friend but she had bf so she like didnt know what to do for now. she didnt say this exactly but was what she meant and i never told her bf. how could she even dare to say i talked with her bf? anyway then my friend, the guy, said he doesnt know what to believe and asked me to call him. i didnt call bcs was late in my country and i said it to him and he gave me his number but then my computer was formatted and i lost it. i dont know why he wanted it maybe to listen that i was saying the truth. anyway my friend said to me for sure they were dating but i dont know. my friend he had her pic and in a relationship in his status but she had her bf pic and in a relationship but with that guy. anyway a month and some days ago i saw in her profile and in her bf that they were single and yesterday i saw in my friend profile in other site that he is in a relationship and he wrote happy to have you and that girl wrote happy happy and more happys in his wall. isnt life unfair? i loved him so much, he ignored me and is with a girl that humiliated me and we were best friends, she humiliated me and said a lie about me and he doubts about my word and now they are happy together. im not sad bcs i want be with him, im just sad bcs i really loved him and you saw what he did to me. and that girl is a total fake. do you guys think he will ever find out i said the truth and she lied? :( if i worked in that site i will prove that to him but i dont so :( please guys what you guys think of my sad story? :(
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5 responses
@jailo12 (332)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
a long post cat ..hahahah ,dont bother think of that guy cat. there's a lot of guys out there and who knows your prince is just watching you and just checking you out. just be wise when it comes to love cat, dont fall in love that easy. guys may take advantage of your feelings if your showing it too early. im just here if you want someone to talk to, im always available to listen. take care
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
watch me and check me out? ahah jai^^ im not that cute you know^^ im simple girl not those beauties that guys look at distance^^ ahah anyway thanks for being here for me ^^ is good to know that. also you are right maybe i showed to soon what i felt for him^^ anyway for now i shut up if like some guy and wait he says it first ahah if he doesnt then i dont say it either ahah^^
• India
5 Sep 10
Hmmmm ,i pity u , was it worth it really ?
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
no tryp it didnt worth it bcs that guy broke my heart. i cried so much with his attitudes. i even thought i cant love again. it was a hard time for me but stop talking with him slowly helped me. i decided that the best was forget him bcs i would just get hurt. i just feel sad bcs we were so good friends and he ruin all. even he didnt defend me when that girl humiliated me and a true friend would. he said he doesnt want to put himself into it. he loves that girl actually and she said a lie about me and he doubted about who said the truth. it really hurts when you love someone so much and he just despise and dont care how you feel :( thanks for your support :)
• United States
5 Sep 10
I'm sorry about your situation. I'm not a guy, I'm a woman, but I shouldnt couldn't read it all. You must have been very upset when you wrote it. I think if he tells you he's telling other girls too that he loves them, you'll have to move on or acknowledge that he's just a friend.
• United States
7 Sep 10
You're not stupid. He's a coward. He doesn't know how to open up and discuss this with you. He probably doesn't even realize how much hurt he caused you. I hope you feel better soon. Maybe their relationship won't last and he'll realize he shouldn't have let you go.
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
the situation wasnt exactly that just he really hurts my feelings bcs he knew i loved him and he kept and kept ignoring me or joke about love me? that girl made all the joke thats what he said. he said it was her idea. she acted nice to me and then she did that. if she was my friend she would never joke like that in first place. she even said im fake bcs i said to my friend i didnt like her attitude she was saying i pretend im her friend and then i say i dont like her. i just said i didnt like when she joked about he loves me and that it seemed she dont like me bcs other day she was saying i love you to him and he said it too in english and when they talked alone they usually say things in their language. and that day she humiliated me she was saying ian, the guys name, i love you do you love me too? just for me to read it. he didnt answer her though. she humiliated me so much that i even ask my friend to be tehre only for me to feel her support. she said i talked with her bf in yahoo saying she liked someone else and i didnt do it. i even said to her bf saying you know i didnt talk with you in yahoo bcs i dont even have your yahoo and he said that a girl called catarina messaged him in that site we were all on and said that his gf liked someone else. so who did that? for sure she created a profile with my name and did that bcs she was only one winning something. now they are together. thats why life is so unfair bcs she was a fake and she is happy with him. and me i been so good to him and he didnt even care about my feelings. is so sad that he wasted our friendship :( but is ok now bcs i dont care anymore for him bcs he also act bad to me not defending me and ignoring me. i messaged him past week saying i want forget all and be friends bcs we were good friends but if he didnt want is ok and he didnt answer me. even after what he did i humiliated myself again :( im so stupid.
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
Hello sweetlove, this is such a long sad story. I can relate it well. All i can say is that never ever trust anyone whom you did not meet personnaly. You can seldom find one real person online nowadays (even persons you see often still fools you). I was once feel that way with a fellow filipino who is living in US. We have as what you can say are into online BF-GF relationships. He was actually planning to have a vacation in the Philippines and was planning to come and see me in my province. I am not at all prepared for that. He was saying something that frightened me. I have to be sure before i fall into something i will regret later. Since we are using MIRC that time it's so easy to find which channels he is entering. I changed my nick into something that connects to his nick something that had "MRS" before his nick and entered all the channels he were in. Sure enough i got several messages why i am using their boyfriends nick with "MRS". whew that's how i caugth him before i completely fall in his trap. And i'm thankful i did that. Though i admit it hurts me but it was not too late to stay away from this type of person. I am not the one who will still be there once being fooled. Cheer up and always put ypurself on guard with people like that. It's not too late you will still find somebody who will truly be your bestfriend or whatever. And stay away from this other girl too. Let time heal you. Go out and enjoy life and do as what other people say "Don't cry over spilled milk". they are not worth your time and tears my dear cat.
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
thanks so much rain^^ you are very sweet worrying with me^^ im sorry that that guy you loved had other girls. he was such a big liar :( and yes thank god you had that idea so you could find out what he was doing. you are too sweet^^ im sure you will find a great guy that will love you forever^^ also that guy was only a loser and lost a girl that really liked him. so was his loss^^ dont worry like people say we find once in a lifetime someone that really loves us and he lost his chance. maybe he change his attitude soon :) thats what i hope bcs playboy guys are never happy. and rain please find an awesome guy ok? you deserve it^^
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
5 Sep 10
It took me 7 to 8 minutes reading your story. But sorry to hear that of what my fellowman did to you I mean I am a Filipino as well. Actually I don't fully understand your story the fact that I am sleepy right now but I comprehend a little bit that seems that a guy is just playing around. Meaning he is fund of searching girls as well. Have you met him personally?
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
not yet :) sorry that you been so long reading my story :( im happy you cared to read it^^ well he wasnt playing around but he just act too bad to me bcs we were best friends and suddenly he started to act bad to me ignoring my messages and also when that girl humiliated me he didnt defend me. just he act bad with me for no reason. bcs i really cared much for him we even had plan to meet bcs we were very good friends and then things changed :( is like bcs i dont speak tagalog it was a problem. bcs since he met many pinoy people is like he started to forget to talk to me :( he even never put me in his best friends list but put one girl that he just met since few days already. i dont know why he acted that way to me. i really dont.
@Sphinx30 (286)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
...That really hurts and a very sad story...but anyways, I'd like to apologized for what that guy did for you, I'm also a filipino guy but that my fellow man never deserved for your love and kindness. It seems that he just playing around with your feelings and taken you for granted. But don't lose hope,God is watching and I know you can find the best man for you! Never bother yourself with that guy, just take it as simple learning experience for you to learn and to become strong in dealing with LOVE. Because LOVE really is unfair and it really hurts to know the reality. it's not that only LIFE is unfair but also LOVE as well. So, as early, You have also to be thankful of what you have discover for that guy, that he has a bad attitude and he doesn't about you and your relationship, right? So, MOVE ON! LIFE is so short, LIFE is Beautiful and be HAPPY!
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
thanks sphinx^^ you dont need to apologise for him^^ i know that pinoy are good guys the most part^^ thanks for your support im thankful that i saw how he really was. i really thought he was very sweet and caring but then he just acted careless to me and i didnt deserve it bcs i really cared for him and he knew it. anyway is ok i just want that one day he sees how bad he was to me and that i didnt deserve what he did :) thanks so much for your sweet words^^