cheating partner
By donnaheff
@donnaheff (158)
Nigeria
September 5, 2010 10:54am CST
would you ever forgive a cheating partner and get back to him or her
6 responses
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
As a cheating partner myself, my partner still gave me a chance and forgave me for what I've done. I know its never easy accepting the fact that you have been cheated. But if you let your anger get the best of you, how will you give your chance to be happy and free?
Therefore, YES I would forgive a cheating partner. Even though I may get so mad like how my partner was. Time healed the pain that I caused him. As long as my partner won't abuse me, won't do it again.. then there won't be any problem. I would certainly give him another chance if he asks me to. As the quote goes..
"If you get cheated on once, shame on him.
If you get cheated on twice, shame on you."
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
5 Sep 10
When I was younger I was the cheater too....And my partner forgave me....
@donnaheff (158)
• Nigeria
5 Sep 10
I think most people do cheat on their partners but are never caught. I have done it so many times but each timee I do it I always get to appreciate my girlfriend the more. So I have no moral right not to forgive her if she is caught cheating
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
You both gave me a big 
on my face knowing that I'm not the only one who is a self-confessed cheater here. It's the guilt that kills me after I cheated and I bet it is what you felt as well. Regardless of if we get caught or not, it is definitely not right to fool somebody. I'm happy that I'm given this chance to change.
Best of luck
on my face knowing that I'm not the only one who is a self-confessed cheater here. It's the guilt that kills me after I cheated and I bet it is what you felt as well. Regardless of if we get caught or not, it is definitely not right to fool somebody. I'm happy that I'm given this chance to change.
Best of luck
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
Vengeance is never ours honey.., so I will never ever plan of stooping to my partner's level of being a cheater.., and if he ever cheated to me.., He will never have me again.., I might be able to forgive him as time passed by.., But never will I forget what he had done..=)
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
5 Sep 10
Well when my ex husband and I got back together he told me that if I ever cheated on him that he would never forgive me and we would be done, that was the same guy I cheated on when we were teenagers but we were now adults and I never cheated on him he was married before me to someone else and she did cheat on him twice with his own brother....I would never dream of cheating on him ever....I could probably forgive him but it would take along time to get the trust back.....We are trying to work our relationship out again we are divorced but getting back together and have been apart for 2 and half years total.....We have been divorced over a year and neither one of us has been with another.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Yes, I can forgive a cheating partner but I will never trust him again. forgiveness doesn't always mean trust, because once trust is broken it is difficult to restore. It would take a lot of time. And no, I would not get back with him because I believe once a cheater always a cheater. He will still cheat in the future, unless a miracle happens.
@AmazedSweetie (63)
• United States
5 Sep 10
That's a tough one. I have been cheated on before and I never got back with that person, but the situation was worse then just cheating. He also mentally abused me. But, if my Fiance were to cheat on me...I would probably forgive him just the one time, depending on the situation. It would be hard and would be harder to trust him. But if he were to do it twice I would be out the door.
