LOVE for the First time isn't it Dangerous?

@Sphinx30 (286)
Philippines
September 7, 2010 8:46am CST
To be in love for the first time is so wonderful and that you could hardly described the joy and happiness you've felt for someone. But this is also the most dangerous stage for every person who fall in love for the very first time. It is because such people are not strong enough to handle such painful and become so depress that may resort to suicidal. Do you think LOVE for the first is so Dangerous?
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5 responses
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
yes it is :( i know that bcs me i really loved this guy so much that my head started to dont be ok. even now i forgot him my head is still with problems. im too weak now. im always nervous, always stressed, always cry easy. so yes is not good to give all our heart till we be sure that that person really loves us so much. or else we might end up hurt and not ok. and you are right some even kill themselves. me i didnt think about doing that for him but i was too sad yes and my head is not ok till now. mostly bcs i loved other guy after this one and he hurt me so much too so :( anyway i wish soon i can find a guy that value me much and make me feel totally happy and that my head be ok again^^
@Sphinx30 (286)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
ohhh...that's terrible for you my friend but don't bother so much about it because it will make you more depress and sad, right? I think the best thing you could do is to pray to get over that guy and for you to become strong...remember Prayer is so powerful, if you totally believed in him then, surrender yourself to him and all of this troubles will end...or maybe go out with your friends, Get mingle to them so that you could think so much about your problem. Cheer up! Life is beautiful! you know...
@Sphinx30 (286)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I mean therefore you could not think so much of your problem...Sorry! lol...
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
7 Sep 10
It would be dangerous for a person who does not think and just feels. One should know the extent of such feelings of love. Love should not be blamed for failure because it is just a feeling that you cannot control. Love is love, nothing more, nothing less. :)
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
8 Sep 10
That is exactly my point as well my friend... I said it in another way. :)
@deve_annrn (1857)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
I guess it depends on how the individual can handle a certain situation.., It can eb dangerous for people who are not good in dealing with disappointments and pains in life.., it will be hard for them to cope when they get hurt...
• Canada
7 Sep 10
I agree with that it would depend on the individual....
@Sphinx30 (286)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
yes, I agree for both of you...thanks for the nice response...
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
Nope. The foundation of responding on that matter will be based on what kind of teachings and advised the parents would do plus the values they obtained from religion they belong. I can say it's not dangerous if you know what real love is and how to control it. People sometimes get with their emotions without thinking and considering factors that may affect their entire life in the future taking a aggressive decision.
@Sphinx30 (286)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
Yes, I might agree with you...it really helps the kind of teachings and values from the parents...
@BlueAngelRS (2900)
• Canada
7 Sep 10
I think it depends on how a person handles bad situations...I myself have been broken hearted before with someone I am in love with, at the time it crushed me and I fell very depressed but at the same time I think as a result I'm a stronger person then I was before it happened....