You've hurt me.

China
September 8, 2010 6:40pm CST
how can a hurt more hurtful than getting it from the person you love so much?
10 responses
@caud8708 (29)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
one becomes more vulnerable when around the people they love. everything they do matters to you beacuse they are important. he/she may have hurt you, and at time, hurt him/her too.. it is just normal, just as long as you are able to deal with it together. and these problems help you gain a certain level of emotional maturity for your relationship. and yes, makes you stronger. it is not all 'hurt' that this loved one gives you.. so, just hold on if this relationship truly matters to you.. As expected, more problems would be encountered as you two go through this relationship.
• China
10 Sep 10
Yes, Hold on and go through. one SMS from her to my mobile made me recover and feel well again. thank you.
• United States
8 Sep 10
Its just the realizing that someone you love will make you hurt the most... But remember all the cannot kill you can make you stronger!
• China
9 Sep 10
Yes, More stronger
@raviudal (260)
• India
10 Sep 10
it hurts more than any one know
@rmnrmn (688)
• India
9 Sep 10
Whn we love someone, our expecttion is more from them. Therefore, its hurts most eventhough it is a simple matters!
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Yes.. Nothing hurts more than being hurt by the one who you loved so much.. But I guess it's the way it is.., You wouldn't be hurt as much if you don't love the person right? =)
9 Sep 10
I guess it depends on how they have hurt you. As they say "you always hurt the ones you love". Sometimes someone can hurt you but will tell you as they love you, but how is this possible? To me if they love you then surely they would not want to hurt you in any kind of way.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 10
has become of human nature, his heart, easy divided and turned to the other. That is why in the love, you must be prepared to get hurt
@raviudal (260)
• India
9 Sep 10
i cant say any thing to it , i have so many ideas but unable to explain in words
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
9 Sep 10
I think this happens when you genuinely love someone and that you don't want to lose that someone. Being hurt is a healthy feeling because when you get hurt, you recover. So next time it happens, you become tougher.
@emgee595 (335)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Loving someone is tantamount to giving that significant person the power to hurt you, too. Why? Because the more you love that person, the more feelings/emotions he/she can evoke from you. You'll be more affected with anything he/she does because he/she matters a lot to you. When you love a person so much and that person did something hurtful or breached your trust it hurts a lot because you valued that person and expected him/her to value you as well. Everything he/she does affects you because when you love you also care...If that person is a stranger, you wouldn't get affected as much because you simply just don't care at all, right? So when you love, you become vulnerable and that person somehow got a hold on you. Still, as the saying goes..it is better to love and lose than to never love at all. Loving & hurting are basic human experiences and it is still better to feel all these emotions than to be indifferent and numb. So live well, love much and laugh often...if you got hurt, take a break...breathe...take time to heal...move on and live again. It's part of being human. Just always remember to love yourself, too...if the pain is too much, know when to take back that love & when to take back that power you've given that person to hurt you... Set yourself free..And maybe, just maybe when you've moved on you'll find out you are a much better person. :D