husband 's life

@aguas_aj (501)
Philippines
September 9, 2010 2:44pm CST
what would you do if your husband spends a lot of his time in the computer? For example , in a weekday activity, 13 hours go to work and travel to work. then 6 hours sleep, 4 hours, computer and meal and 1 hour left for preparing to work and a little time for his son. Now if this routine runs everyday and in the weekend, just transfer the working time to 1 hour helping in the house, additional 3 hours to sleep and all to the internet things called "work".. how would you feel? should you accept that the mere fact that he is home should be enough? Coz i honestly don't think this activity will ever work for me if there is a marriage and a family to be consider. working and working is not only important. and if this activity works for you can you give your insight how to work it up?
1 response
@Yheart (497)
• Indonesia
10 Sep 10
I think whether I accept it or not is depends on the situation, or example, the family need more money or having some ideas which need it. However; spending time with whole family is also important. You need to talk to him.
@aguas_aj (501)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
this is really sad to say but talking to him is no longer a chance.. he wont be talked out with his lifestyle. money is not a big big thing and another thing.. he would rather spend time with other people. he would enjoy an outing with friends but would stay at the room of the hotel if with us..
@Yheart (497)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 10
That's not good if he doesn't want to talk. I'm afraid to go further to this discussion because maybe what I say won't be really good. One more suggestion:Please pay attention to your husband if there is something different.