do you love your sister/brother/mother more than your bf/gf? ^^
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
Portugal
September 10, 2010 2:50pm CST
hi guys^^ do you love your sister/brother/mother more than your bf/gf?^^ i was just wondering bcs for some people even that have a lover their family is always first to them. anyway what about you guys? about me when i have a bf and really love him and he really loves me for sure i will love him more than everyone else^^ what about you guys? please share^^
4 responses
@ree_yah (462)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
my family first before bf...
well if he's just a bf... u dont know whats going to happen to ur relationship.. he can dump u whenever hewants.. while family stickd with u through the end of time.. whether uve been good or bad...
right now that i have my own family... well family first!!
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
10 Sep 10
thanks for your opinion^^ i think that for most part of people family is first^^ about me when i have a bf i know he will be first to me bcs he will be the person that will be always there for me when i have problems and we can share a different love of what we have for our family^^ feelings are more strong i think^^ thats just what i feel^^ thanks for your opinion^^
@GabyChu2010 (7)
• China
11 Sep 10
family is first to me now~
I used to love bf than family.And considered him as a menber of my family.At last,he left nothing without breaking my heartings.After that I found I should love my family more than anyone else.I feel keenly that meaning of ree_yah's saying of "while family stick with u through the end of time... whether uve been good or bad...".
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
11 Sep 10
sorry that your bf hurt you :( but soon you find a sweet bf that i wish you love him as much as you love your family^^ and yes in good or bad times our family is there for us but if you have a bf that also loves you much he also will be there for you too^^ just sometimes is not easy to find a guy that really loves us^^ dont worry soon you find a great guy^^ thanks for your answer^^
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
10 Sep 10
so your family is first^^ ok^^ thanks for your answer^^ and sure i dont think you dont love your bf^^ just you love your family more :) i respect your feelings^^ and wouldnt blame you bcs we cant choose who we will love more^^ i think it just depend of how people feel and how your family and your bf is with you also^^ some people that are not so attached to their family maybe love bf more or maybe just love him more for other reasons^^ but sure is ok you love your family more^^
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
11 Sep 10
no im close to my family^^ i just wanted ask bcs many people give more value to family than to their bf or gf and i think at least we must give same value^^ bcs our bf is also important in our life^^
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
12 Sep 10
So meaning to say you will love him more than to your family? In my case I can't compare since the love is different. Of course if you love your family that is not romantically which is for the relationship.
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
10 Sep 10
It's not really a love you can compare. The love you have for your family is a different kind of love than you have for a boyfriend/girlfriend.
But I guess I'd have to say I love them the same amount. 
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
10 Sep 10
ohh foreverfamous^^ thats great that you love them the same^^ is just that for some people the family is always first than their bf/gf ^^ and i dont agree bcs our bf is the person that will stay with us forever right?^^ so i dont think we must love our family more. i like your answer that you love them the same amount^^ thats a good thing^^
meluan yes is a different kind of love^^ so you love them the same?^^
