no one has the right to judge me..
September 12, 2010 6:10am CST
i just found out today that most of my relatives think that the reason behind my separation is a third party on my side and that they are assuming that i am still have a 3rd party until now.. i feel so angry since non of them even asked me what happened and they are starting stories about me.. if there is one thing i hate the most, it would people judging with out proper cause.. it is very much demeaning..
12 Sep 10
I agree with you. The very person that understands and knows the best is you yourself. So, "don't judge a book from its cover," right? But, in our culture, it has become a normality that people tends to deal with someone else business. Although it is not directly applied (e.g. gossiping) but it's quite annoying, especially if what they have done would tarnish our reputation. Just do what you feel is right, my friend. If you do the right thing then that thing will show itself.
• United States
12 Sep 10
i think what they are doing is still just like gossiping and they are tarnishing my reputation and not only that what they say now might affect my kids in the future.. i mean i hate the fact that they start assuming and then start spreading rumors with out thinking about the effects.. its ok that it affects me since its just me, but for it to affect my kids in the future is totally wrong..
12 Sep 10
I agree with you. People should not judge a book from its cover, right? Unfortunately, it has become a normality in our culture that people like to deal with someone else business, although it is not directly applied (e.g. gossiping). But it will be quite annoying, especially if what they have done can tarnish our reputation. But, remember that we sometimes have to listen to other people, either, as long s what they say will be good for us (e.g. advice).