Helping a Depressed friend

@oscar6 (1938)
United States
September 15, 2010 12:55pm CST
Do any mylotters out there have any tips on how to help a depressed friend? I have plently of experience with depression and other mental illnesses since I have a B.S. in psychology but im needing some help with my friend. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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4 responses
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
Some cheer me up tips that works for me: A practical tip would be to pray for her and with her. Cheer her up with small things that she loves, attention from others helps since the person who is depress is given the impression that she is important and that somebody cares..Sometimes even if sorrounded by people the sadness sets it. If she had stopped doing most of the things/activities that she loves to do, encourage her to be involve again. Learn to trace the reason for her depression the answer/solution may come from that. Get her to talk more about what she feels in that way she is processing and re organizing her thoughts. Hope these helps your friend.
@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
16 Sep 10
Depression is very tricky. Does he have a serious medical problem where he needs medical attention? Does he realize he is depressed and wants to beat it? Is a particular thing bothering him and does he want to talk about it? Do you know what is causing his depression?
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
I'm no expert but I know a couple of manic depressive people. I suggest that company is the best. Manic depressive people can only think of the most negative and the saddest things in life. Talk to your friend about anything always on the positive note. It would also be good to find out the root of her depression so you can help him or her process the cause of his/her depression. You should also inform your friend's family of the situation because you won't always be available 24/7. If it's a case of severe depression, I think the family should bring her to a specialist. Maybe, some medication is needed.
@Hannah10 (83)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
will as of in my opinion i can help my friends in his/her depression by advice his/her,will make me feel that he/she is important to me,,that im always here for his/her..