Have you been in love with your bestfriend?
By Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13366)
Philippines
September 15, 2010 4:51pm CST
I have never imagined that my very dear friend would turn out to be my lover as well. He never knew something wonderful was ahead of us either. But even though, things has become, well, a little intimate, the bond that we have built is more solid than ever.
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5 responses
@jmramirezA (29)
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15 Sep 10
Well, actually most of my best friends are female and I love them so mush just like a sister. Today, I'm kind a having a male best friend and his been my greatest crush in high school. Its better for us to be really good friends because we can understand each other and I'm really having a great time. Though, it's nice to be in love with your best friend because you know a lot of things about each other.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
i guess you are right. It is pretty exciting to me now. Coz, I once had a similar close friend in my younger years. He consistently courted for 3 years. Then came a time that I felt that I think he deserves to be happy and so I told him that we can try. But, as months went by, I have discovered that what I really want from his is just plain friendship- nothing more than that. But this time, it is real different.
@jmramirezA (29)
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20 Sep 10
Wow! That's nice. At least at your part your best friend really likes you while on my part he only sees me as his friend and now I have already accepted it and I'm more happy for us just good friends. Now, I'm enjoying my company with him and I'm liking it how we chat each other about our love lives. Although, sometimes I still get attracted to him but on the second thought I'm seeing him as my friend.
@celticeagle (159222)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Sep 10
In all actuality it is supposed to be that way. I can understand your pleasant surprise in have as your lover your best friend. I think this is the best, the ultimate. If only more people would become friends first and then become intimate I think relationships would last alot longer.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
15 Feb 12
My guy started out as a friend but he didn't become my best friend until Just before I fell for him. He had loved me when he met me. He just waited and waited for me to fall for him. Now we are best friends and lovers.
@SJandogA (20)
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22 Sep 10
Yes I have been in love with my best friend. We never knew that something like this will happen to both of us, but things have been very weird lately and know we are still together and proud that our love for each other is now getting stronger. At first, he was just my best friend, he comforts me and is always beside me in everything I do until I discovered he had a crush on me and then we end up being lovers. It's nice because you already know so much about each other and you are more comfortable when you are together.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
3 Feb 11
I never had any love affair prior to marriage, mine was arranged marriage by my parents 45 years ago, and my hubby is my BEST FRIEND after marriage only, we are a very very happy couple..
thanks for this discussion
happy posting
cheers
kalyani
