How can I forget him???

Philippines
September 16, 2010 11:19am CST
fellow loters!please help and give some advice with me...i decided to split my boyfriend 1 week ago because she makes me fool,,,but until now it's too hurt to accept that i lost him....
8 responses
• United Arab Emirates
16 Sep 10
It is said when GOD wants you to open your hands to let go off something...there is always a reason, Coz he want to give you something even more better. So rather than regretting on what you cannot change, think about something that you will get in future. You may get the best of everything.
@chiumee (850)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
i agree with you edward. it's about growing up. part of it. it's like letting go of your pacifier when you were too young. you have to let go of it, coz you can then take better foods instead of just milk and pacifier. afterall, you are already old enough to tolerate these more complex things. don't worry hannah, time heals almost everything, if not all. happy mylotting. enjoy it here.
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
17 Sep 10
You shouldn't try to forget him. You can forget him day by day, a little and little. You need more time. If you try to forget him immediately, you'll be hurt and you can't forget him!
@ench815 (465)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
Entertain yourself. Go out with your friends. Meet new people. Pick up a sport. Learn something new. Start a hobby. Just keep yourself occupied during this time. The busier you are, the less you'll think of him. As time passes and you learn to enjoy new things and other people, you will think less of him. Time heals. There are people I know who after leaving a relationship and learning to move on claim that they are happier. It is just that time after the break up that hurts. But after getting over that phase and you start moving on, you will see and realize that there are better people more deserving of you.
• Portugal
16 Sep 10
ohhh you mean he cheated on you? :( thats too sad sorry for it. well what you have to do is this^^ i will tell you my way to forget guys ahah^^ you have to put in your head that that guy is not the right one for you :) we have someone always destined for us right? so that guy will still appear^^ this one that hurt you was only a loser that didnt see your value^^ but soon will appear one that will see and will love you so much^^ life is too short for you to cry bcs of a guy that was so stupid^^ cheer up and wait for your prince^^ he will come soon :) dont think bout that one that hurt you^^ he was the one losing not you^^ if need something message me :) if want talk about your problems^^
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
letting go is never an easy task. but stop and think--would you want to be constantly in a relationship which would always make you feel that unspecial or be hurt now and move on and try to find a better person for your love? It only hurts for awhile, for the meantime, do enjoy being with friends. do things that would occupy your mind instead of thinking about the things that happened. everything happens for a reason. if that person is really for you, he will come back into your life. it's no use sulking in a corner. live life to the fullest!!! enjoy!!!
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
Hi Hannah10. I know how much you are hurt right now. Because I'm still recovering and mending my heart from break-up with my bf. Just like we just broke up. At first i just cant accept the reality that we no "us" anymore. But i realized that i must accept what happened and go on with my life. When i feel really really sad, i just talk to my friends about what happened and let myself cry. That way it will make us feel better. I just advise you that whatever happen you must always stay strong and remember that God has something or someone that you deserve. Just wait and always pray. Goodluck!!!
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
Sigh.... Your dilemma is very common to all of us and yet it seems that everytime we encounter a situation like this it is always a strange and difficult to understand... The best defense that you can do for being still in love with him is to think how he made a fool out of you. Whatever you do right now, do not think of all the good memories you have together. Do not think of the way he loved you, took care of you and all those seemingly good traits he has. Think of how bad he was as a boyfriend and how he betrayed you and your trust. How he tainted such love... Last word, IN ORDER TO FORGET A MAN IS TO FALL FOR ANOTHER. Crazy thought, but ,this often works. Try to go out and meet other people. Open your heart again, just do not rush... You'll be ok, dear. :)
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
16 Sep 10
try not to think about him...get out, go for a walk, take care of an animal, give him your love, listen to happy music, meet new people..you know what could help you better ...huggs