What is the most offensive thing a friend can do?

@jaijaye (168)
Philippines
September 17, 2010 11:10am CST
What do you think is the most offensive a friend can do? For me the most offensive thing a friend can do is that being backbiting and taking advantage. Being not true to you. Most especially if you have a plans but nobody is there that you never expect it. Sometimes he/she only remind you when he/she have something to please you and after that he/she will never be appear or remind you after all. Not even a call or a message of thank you. I wanna hear from you guys. What do you think would it be a offensive thing a friend can do?
2 responses
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
I have a couple of "friends" in the past who really annoyed the heck out of me. This guy "friend" from high school whom I was really close with back then just kept on ditching me every time he has a new girl friend. Of course, I understood that he needed to be with his girlfriend, but the annoying part is, he never even bothers to say hello to me at all for months, and then when they break up, he'll come running back to me again saying that I never tried contacting him or whatever like it was my fault. This other "friend" back stabbed the hell out of me and my guy this one time. It's a really long story, but the point is, we tried to help her when she needed us, and what we got in return was her telling everybody that she suspects that it was us who took the valuable item that she has lost. I really hate her face right now.
@jaijaye (168)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
Oh my.. she's really a bad friend to you. never mind her anyway. You are innocent, you are not doing anything bad about her.
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
The problem is, I really want to get even! lol. This is probably the worst that has ever happened to me, since its not only backstabbing - she thinks that I'm a thief! What kind of "friend" does that, right? Anyhow, I hope this never happens to you or to anyone else. We should really choose our friends wisely.
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
I think it's when friends deserted you and forget you ever existed when you needed them the most. Friends is for me...somebody I can trust and depend on during my most troubled times. I was only deserted by a friend before and it really hurts bad because I consider her as my best friend. I guess time changes and so people's attitudes as well.