Get Over a Broken Heart

i think that was the hardest part i had to go through a few years ago. it was like the whole world collapsed! i couldn't imagine how i could feel that devastated. but honestly, even after all these years, i could still feel the pain. it is so hard to get over it completely coz i have given myself to that person wholly.

Honestly I dont experience to have a broken heart, we argue and have quarrel sometmes but we try to solve and fix our problems sometmes. I will post only some tips how to heal a broken heart. Broken heart is never fun. The end of a relationship is the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. The person being broken up with will definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected and second to life without somebody they still care for. To let the healing begin here are some tips I will post here. Avoid the former love - Yes, avoid. No this isn't being immature Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you to do or to say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best things you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be. Talk out your feelings with your close friend - get everything out so that you wont hold inside. They can give you advices and help get your attentions to get over the heartache. Cry if you want to - it's Ok to cry over the loss. Dont hold back, let the tears roll just do it an a safe and private place where it is unlikely t get back to your ex. You don't want your tears to be used as guilt trip. Their purpose is to cleanse you of any pain not make your lover come back. Let Go of momentus - Put away or give away anything and everything that reminds you of a relationship. Hide them out of sights so thy will be out of mind Focus on all things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying - Think about this thing and replay it in your mind over and over. Dwell on them. It will make you better to remember that your former flame was not perfect and there are things that you wont really miss. Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex have done your relationship. Really give this things play in your memory. Remind your self that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtfulness things and tell your self over and over that you are better off without that kond of ego crushing behavior in your life. Maitain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Dont pass notes through friends,dont make any calls. Just dont contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure that you are not longer want to be with them. Mending a broken heart is not easy but it can be done Just stick to the game plan mentioned...

i had been this situation and it really hard recover the pain. The pain that i had felt was pain than we get injury. With the moody mode goes through all the days and even didnt had a good sleep. For me, the best cure to over a broken heart is time.

I had experienced it before. What I did to overcome it is just pray and be with my family and friends. Overtime, I learned how to open up myself and try loving again. Happy mylotting!

im not brokenhearted right now but i was^^ just now im ok bcs finally i saw this guy that always been there waiting for me and i chose be with him^^ but right now im a bit sad bcs sometimes i feel like he loves me but could care a bit more :( you know i always dreamt to have a bf that always cared for me. that always says he loves me, kiss me, say he misses me. cute things all the time. and he does that while we talk but after it i feel he could care more than what he does. thats why i feel sad sometimes. i wish guys could care more than what they do. i know there are very caring ones^^ he is very caring but is like when dont talk to me is ok his life without it i dont know what to think. just i take things too serious always. anyway are you heartbroken? sorry if you are :( if want talk im here to listen^^

ive been through this situation few years ago..i know its easy to be said than done..i felt like i was trapped in a box,feeling like a limited actions..finally, i have come to a point that i really have to teach myself from getting out of that box by diverting my mind & attention to other things or hobbies i had..like i particpated more on dancing & bonding with my co dancer in order to teach myself to live without him in my life anymore & accept things wont be the same as what we are before..till i found someone who loves me more & the one who helped me to realize that life doesnt end there & it has to go on to the next chapter of my life..& now im on the chapter of my life which i can say that more interesting & happiest part of mt book of life..