September 19, 2010 6:46am CST
look for and recognize the good in yourself and in others. we are all capable of so called "good" and "bad" behaviors and we have our "good" and "off" days. we are all unique, and it is wonderful that we are different and not all the same in our appearances, our thoughts, our opinions, our likes and dislikes. being different is not threatening, it is not "bad" just different. embrace the differences and be happy for the variety, and pleassssssssssssee....... forget the concepts of right and wrong. people are not good or bad OR right or wrong, they just are. If you were in "their shoes" maybe you would act differently, or maybe not!. Being judgmental wastes time and cuts you off from opportunities and meaningful relationships - because you are not perfect either and your judgement might be worse than the person you are judging! remember the golden rule : we should treat others as we want to be treated.