Want your baby Boy or Girl ?
By aeiou78
@aeiou78 (3445)
Malaysia
September 20, 2010 10:23pm CST
In Chinese family, we prefer to have more baby boys.
Maybe the trend has changed in the well educated Chinese family.
For them, boys and girls are the same.
But in China, the families mostly from the villages, murdered their babies girls.
They wanted to have another chance to deliver babies boys.
The number of babies in certain family is controlled by the government.
It is very sad to hear about those news.
Do you have anything to say about it?
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4 responses
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
21 Sep 10
Hey i am not married yet.. but i like mostly girl baby.. because when i see nay girl baby then i feel that baby is very cute.. anmd i feel very happy after seeing it.. and also i like their activity.. what about you.. which you like the most..
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 10
I always claim that baby boy and baby girl are the same.
Honestly speaking, I prefer to have boy if he is my the only child.
If I have more children, I prefer to have boys and girls. But boys must be more than girls in my family. ha! ha! ha!
Do you know that the chances to get a baby boy is HARDER than a baby girl ?
Although I am saying so, I am still willing to accept the fact.
No matter baby boy or baby girl, they are my own baby.
I shall appreciate of God granting me the babies.
@rachaellee (58)
• United States
22 Sep 10
im married with one baby boy. I really want to have a baby girl and my second baby is going to be a boy as well. however ill not dislike him or not love him just because he is a boy. ill try for a girl one more time and love the girl if i get one and my baby boys just the same. My son is so active and i love that and im glad my husband has someone he can teach things to now i wanr a bonding partner too. :)
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 10
In China they have a huge population and the government are trying to reduce the population. That is why China has the one child policy. It is very sad that some baby girls are murdered so the couple can have another try at having a baby boy. I wish that it was possible to make all the Chinese people begin thinking that a baby girl is just as lovely as a baby boy. I am pleased that the well educated in the cities know that baby girls are as special to have as a baby boy. Perhaps they have a baby girl and keep her. However in the villages it must be awful because the couples don't wish to have a baby girl. I think that when the children in China grow up there might be more males than females. Not all the men will be able to find a wife I believe.
I would have been happy to have a baby girl. I really wanted a girl and a boy. I have got a 15 year old son, a disabled 3 year old son and a 14 month old baby daughter. I know that a pregnancy can happen without a lady planning it. I feel sorry for every Chinese lady that has a surprise pregnancy with a second child.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 10
My second child is now three years old. He won't ever be able to walk so he is going to be getting a wheelchair like standing frame. That will give him more independence than being pushed along in a wheelchair. He has to have catheter care.
I know some ladies try to have a baby boy or a baby girl. They eat the right sorts of food like salty foods make it likely the lady will have a boy. Some are successful but others get the opposite gender to that they want to have. I know a lady that was pregnant with her 7th child when I was pregnant with my 2nd child. She had tried to get pregnant with a girl but she had a baby boy. She went overseas to have medical treatment to get a baby girl. She ended up with triplet girls. She only set out to have one daughter and now she has seven sons and three daughters.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 10
Great to hear such a Great mom.
If you have a daughter, she can help you a lot in taking care of the family and house works.
This is why, most of the people prefer to have a Daughter for their first child.
What is hapening to your Second child ?
Actually, there is a way for you to choose a baby girl or a baby boy. The accuracy of this method is quite high. It is agreeable by the doctor too. You don't need to eat something special in order to get a baby boy or a baby girl.
I am not willing to disclose it here. I don't ever advise someone to discriminate the genders of thier children.
ha! ha! ha!
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 10
Hi,
I do agree with you, in chinese family,having baby
boy is very important and for some old folks,baby boy
is like precious to them.
I am glad that my first child is a boy, my in-law love him
so much. but then my in-law is not that conservative type and
especially my mother in law does not have any preference in baby
gender .for her,boy or girl are the same.
Of course, for me, I prefer to have my first child to be a boy.
Oh..so cruel that in Chine,some families just killed their babies girls
because they are aiming for baby boys only.
Such a conservative thinking and they should not kill a baby,be it, a boy
or girl,they have the same equality in society.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 10
My first child is a Daughter.
I like my daughter as my first child so that she can accompany her mom all the while. Besides, she will be a good helper in my family.
She is now 14 years old.
My Seond and Third Child are both Boys. They are 13 and 10.
ha! ha! ha! Congratulation to you for getting a baby.
We appreciate of what the God has been granted to us.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
I want my kids to be guys. I don't want girl kids. Girls are high maintenance even if my girlfriend says she wants girls. I doubt she'll be able to take care of them when they grow up.
