Should you try or give up?

United States
September 23, 2010 3:17am CST
Hello im wondering people is it better to really try in a relationship if you feel you really love someone or should you just give up and find love in other places if the relationship is difficult to handle?
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7 responses
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
There are really times that you feel like you cant handle anything when things get difficult. I have felt that many times already but if you can still do it then continue working out for it.
@katland05 (136)
• Guam
23 Sep 10
bludshot hi.. If u really love that person don't give up, keep trying... But for the relationship to work you both have to work at it, one person only trying to make it work will not succeed. If you keep trying but the other partner is taking you for granted & not up to making the relationship flourish it's better to cut your losses & move on because maybe it's not meant to be... Have a great day mylotting, friend..
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
Why not try at first then give up when you no longer cannot handle. What you know may be wrong when you already apply it. What I really mean is that, we are afraid to take risks because of our fear to be hurt or fail. But, how would you know that it is not worth it when you never try it. A common mistake is that, we think ahead too much and assume things to be difficult or hard to handle. We question, "What if it will not work out?...What if I will be hurt?...." What about if you also think the other side like, "What if it will work out?..What if I will be happy with him?..." Therefore, there is nothing wrong when you try and experience it.If you fall, then rise again....Then learn from that mistake...
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
depends on how much the relationship is worth it.... well for me, all my relationships have been "worth it", so i always gave a second chance, third, or maybe even fourth.... but sometimes, it takes more than just our best, more than what we can give, to make a relationship work. and if things are just too difficult, then that's the time to decide to let go of it....some people are just not meant for each other. no matter how hard you try.
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
If the relationship deserves a fight then fight for it......but if you think that you are the one who is just fighting for it then let go
@harry89 (2330)
• India
23 Sep 10
i think u should try and try as long u love her
• Indonesia
23 Sep 10
If we truly love someone, never give up to get it until we really sure if he is not our mate. Because, if we give up then we will regret it later.