A question for the ladies?

probably their instincts. in animal world the bigger and the rude male gets all the ladies. so it's pretty much like that in real human world.

I dont think so girls are attracted to sober and decent guy along with fun loving and charming persoanlity of the guy.I think the type of girls you are coming across are of lose character.Character of the person determines a lot the choice and liking of the person.I love guys who have a good humour and who are decent enough to handle humour.I guess girls who are flirtish likes unhealthy humour and indecent guys.Not all girls but few of the dirty minded girls like obnoxious guys..

It is in part because these kind of girls have very low self esteem and have to little respect for themselves.

hi pemalabanget! i am most attracted to men who has a good sense of humour... i like men who can make me laugh out loud so hard. i also like men who treat women with respect and those who acquire a little gentleman character in them. with breeding indeed is also important to me so that i won't feel any shame when i am around this person. but most of all, God fearing ones because those who have this attitude for sure will never go wrong.

There is a psychological reason for this. Youth is a stage of exploring. People in this age tend to try to discover 'something' in 'anything' that crosses their path. In the process they sometimes re-discover something that already exists. As developing personalities, the tend to regard, whatever they do not know as non-existent. So parental/elderly advice is almost always ignored or hated. This develops into an exploration of social/economic limit to which they can extend their behavior. This aspect is called "Rebellious" behavior by most of the parents. Economic independence in young adults, generally, tends to amplify this behavior. In all certainty, association with "Rowdy" or conventional (Bad language, gestures, devil may care attitude and such) is discouraged by the parents and society as such. What is discouraged becomes the focus of attraction! That is why people get attracted to unconventional behavior. Gender is not a major factor here. Pure thrill of having gone against a norm is a factor.

Girls are maybe attracted to that but women arent. Its a very immature things and if you are a woman then you wont be thinking about such things. If you are a woman then you are definitely looking for something that is best and not amateur.

Hello, It is not that girls love to hang out with rude and obnoxious guys. It's just that they like guys who can be themselves all the time and remain less affected by the world outside. This is sometimes mistaken for frankness. Girls have an inherent passion for honesty and frankness. Now that often misguide them into the hands of wrong persons. There are, however girls who prefer gentle, soft-spoken personalities. Let's dig deep into the psychology here. When you assume a gentle demeanor, you usually do it in order to be accepted to the society. Now the guys who appear rude to you are often the guys who are fairly independent, that is, they give a damn on the society. This is regarded as strength by most of the girls you hang around with. Thanks. God bless you.

I second your question. I noticed that most girls in my highschool ended up dating those a-holes that teased them and all.