I need your advice myLotters!

United States
September 23, 2010 9:37am CST
One of my very best friends is a very intelligent guy. I see so much potential in him to do great things with his life because he's smart and multi talented. The problem is he doesn't know what he wants to do with his life. I try and point out the things he's good at and he still doesn't know what do with himself and his future. The best way I can describe him is that he's a dreamer. He'll talk about things he's interested in, things he likes, but won't actually get up and pursue it. So now I ask you guys, how do give advice to a person like this? How do you motivate someone like this? How can you inspire them to do something with themselves? What more can I say to him to make him want to do something with his life? He's a great friend and I would hate to see him left behind while everybody else is moving on with their lives.
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@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
23 Sep 10
I think it is not wrong to see dreams. But it is wrong if you nothing doing for fulfill your dream. As you say that your friend are dreamer. He likes to see dreams. And doesn’t decide for his/her future. I think there are mostly peoples who saw many dreams but many fewer of them may make it true. So I want to give on advice. To see dream is not bad. But if you not effort anything for make it true then it’s your problem. Because you can do anything. And nothing is impossible in this world.