Do you feel comfortable in the company of strangers.....?
September 23, 2010 8:22pm CST
Many a time we find ourselves in a group where we do not find any friends and all are strangers.As I have observed that in such a situation some people smile at others and wish them and soon involve in a conversation with the result they soon become friends.Some stop there and some others try to become very close and continue their friendship even after wards.I am quite opposite.I do not feel comfortable at all in the company of strangers.In case of necessity only I stay there otherwise I leave the place as soon as possible.Even if some one smiles at me I smile in reply as a courtesy.I will answer if they ask about me and I will not ask any questions about them . After wards I feel why I did not make friendship with them May be I am not sociable as some others are.So are you comfortable in the company of strangers....?
24 Sep 10
I would try to smile and talk to them and be friends with them. At other ties, when I don;t feel comfortable with the strangers (arrogant, snob, too rich) I would not fled from them, but I just stay there and be quiet and observe their conversations and thus their real characters.
25 Sep 10
You can do it too, Chayapathys. They are just human. If they are kind to us, then we should be kind to them too. However, if they are a snob, rich people who cannot mingle with the mere of us, I would find out their weakness. I am a bad one. Thanks for the BR. I wish I can find interesting thing to start a discussion, then I can return the favor.
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24 Sep 10
I am usually a little uncomfortable but if they are talking about something I know about I will try to get involved in the conversation if they seem like we have nothing incommon I can feel very uncomfortable and won't really say anything at all so it really depends on what kind of people I am with if they are similiar to me or not.
24 Sep 10
I do not feel comfortable with the company of strangers. Now, it's hard to really put your trust to other people easily. Being with strangers, even though they seem to look nice and good, is also dangerous. If ever situations call that you have to accompany a stranger, you should be sure that you have someone that you know personally with you.
9 Oct 10
Many things can happen if we move to new communities, sometimes we can quickly get along and sometimes we simply can not adjust. I'm a sociable type of person, but indeed sometimes a few moments at the beginning of the introduction is often a bit stiff. I need to know the types of people in a new place to begin the period of adjustment. If I open and they can be open to greet me, then certainly I will quickly blend in with them.