Love is when you say I LOVE YOU?

Philippines
September 24, 2010 9:18am CST
Im not an expressive type of person and I usually dont say the words I like you or I love you. But even then my girlfriend doesnt seem to be bothered by it. So i am confuse right now if she still loves me or not. help me guys! :((
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8 responses
@Lee8919 (35)
24 Sep 10
Does your girlfriend say it to you? and some people dont need words to express what they feel, showing love comes with how you treat a person and to know that you would do anything for them and they would do anything for you. Saying it now and again wouldnt hurt im sure and its a nice thing to hear, if you said it every so often and not all the time im sure your girlfriend would appreciate it even more, just show her you care.... if you never express yourself then thats probably why she isnt responding to you, shes probably got used to not expecting you to say anything, if you did it mite be a nice suprise and her attitude to you could change rapid.
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
She's not very expressive too i think. since she only says it whenever we have monthsary or anniversary. that's why im confuse. but thanks bud. It give some relief.
24 Sep 10
ah well as long as she says it when it truly matters then i think your plain sailing and your welcome hope all goes well.
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship. so within the first months of chatting, he always tells me he loves me. when we got together in person, he was being sweet and showy of his feelings but i felt something was missing. it was then that i realized i would love it more if he said those words to me along with his actions. with women, although actions speak louder than words, it is still a must to reassure us with words. actions and words should be consistent all the time. lacking one of them will be confusing to women. while you think your girlfriend doesn't seem to be bothered by you not saying you love her , you might be assuming it all wrong. whether she's bothered by it or not, this little thing (of saying i love you) will mean so much to her. it's a fact.don't be confused; just do what you have to do and take extra efforts to tell her and show her also that you really love her, even if she doesn't tell you to do so. :)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I appreciate you advice! thanks. we also have long distance relationship for a while but its more good to be in the same place together. ^^
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Love does not always mean when you say I love you. There are times that these words comes out in our mouth without meaning or a lie. There are also times that we express these words by our action. If your girlfriend is not bothered by you for not saying I LOVE YOU to her, that means she can feel you love her by your actions. It is more hurting when you always say the words but you are just lying or you never mean saying it. There are many guys like that. They are fond in saying the words to make an impression, but in truth and in face, they never mean or feel it.
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
I really like your blog to about this discussion. its true. Im just the type of guy who want to show my love to a girl through my actions. thanks! i really appreciate it! ^^
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
24 Sep 10
Hi, For me, the word of I LOVE YOU is not only say our from mouth,but need an action to show prove that my partner really love me and shows his caring to me ,so that I can feel his sincerity. I am not that kinda of easy trusted person,so I need to see a true action, then only I can see the real of my partner.
@hexeduser22 (7253)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
She is not bothered by it because she knows you well enough to not be bothered by it. It's sweet and wonderful when the one you love utter those three words to you but its not entirely the only way to express to someone you love him or her. If you are not that expressive at least be thoughtful and sensitive to her needs. Show her how important she is to you. You'll know how important you are to her even though she is not that expressive too because you will feel it deep inside you, the connection you both have and what you meant to each other. There are various ways to love someone and to show them they are loved. Don't be confused feel everything with your heart and not your mind because your mind may give you reason but only your heart can give you love For being not an expressive person you don't have to force yourself to be expressive just be natural and be who you are because your girlfriend accepted you for who you are in the first place and not who you are trying to be. Love is a wonderful thing cherish it
• India
26 Sep 10
Well it varies from person to person.Its not compulsory to keep saying that you love someone when you do.Am sure the other person wont bother too much on that as long as you'll are understanding couple.Beware of possessive ones they might not like it, they can be more into words.May be she understands you and thinks the same way you do. Why don't you try saying it the next time at least for once. Happy mylotting!!
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Hi mylotter dellabanedz! though i agree that there are people or person not that showy or romantic, like uttering the words ilove you for the nth time, I just can't seem to find the logic not to say it at least once a week.. Not that I am counting,, but I just find it too comfortable not to say those words to the person you care about
• Portugal
24 Sep 10
dont be sad^^ if she didnt say is bcs its not important to her that you say bcs you show her you love her with your attitudes^^ you know if she felt you didnt care she would had say it already^^ you know it means much more if you show you love her than only say those words^^ you do the most important that is show you care^^ and you do it very well or else she would ask you why you dont say you love me? you dont love me? and things like this^^ so if she didnt it just means you show her you love her and thats all she needs to know your feelings^^ sure you can also say to her you love her that means much for us girls to hear those words too^^ but trust me show it to us means more^^ and that you do already^^ you are a great guy^^ continue taking good care of her like you did till now^^