How to strike up a conversation with a beauty?

@yeyelee (370)
China
September 26, 2010 4:57am CST
When you came across a beauty of your style in campus,how did you strike up a conversation with her?Is there any tips for us beginners to learn.In most cases,i just know i have to say something,but have no idea what to say.Somebody once told me that i should observe carefully and try my best to figure out every information transfered by her behaviors first,such as her interests,and then start to chat with her,so this would not be rude and maybe you could impress her.So guys,how did you do in the past? Any successful experience to share with me?
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@xtmlove (403)
• China
27 Sep 10
Hi, my friend. I think it is an interest topic for all the guys. But it is difficult to answer. People have many different reasons that they give up to talk with beauty at last. As for me, if we are know each other, it will be easy to begin a talk. Maybe I will ask something about what she want to do, If I can help to her. If we are strangers, I will think too much before have a chance to her. Most of time, I give up to strike up a conversation with her.
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@yeyelee (370)
• China
27 Sep 10
You're the same as me ,so we still haven't found a girlfriend.Maybe we should change our ways of getting along with others.
• Portugal
30 Sep 10
you guys should trust more in yourselves^^ talk to a guy is harder to talk with a girl^^ trust me. i know this bcs if a boy is with his friends and the girl that approach the boy is not pretty they start to tease probably. but we girls dont usually care much if the boy is handsome or not. as long as he is sweet to us. so if we are with our friends and a boy approaches us noone will tease^^ so this is an advantage already^^ also say hi to a girl and how are you is not hard^^ we are usually sweet and nice so just smile to us and say hi and if you talk sweet to us for sure we can be your friend and who knows something else^^ it all depends of how things go^^
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• Portugal
26 Sep 10
aww^^ im a girl so i guess i can help you ahah anyway in past there was a guy that came to me and i was nice to him :) he was riding a bicycle and he came to me with a flower and said is for you and then he started to talk with me normally^^ asked me what i like to do, if i study in that school, told me also about himself. he said he worked as a volunteer and also other thing but i cant remember now. then he asked if he could meet me in a bay near my house. he said he doesnt live really very near the bay but he could go there and meet me bcs he asked me where i lived. then he asked if i could monday, and i said i cant, and tuesday and wednesday ahah he was very interested really :) but i couldnt accept bcs i liked someone else. but i liked the way he talked. he talked very nice and when he asked my number and i changed matter and when i said i couldnt those days giving bit excuses to dont hurt him he said he would give me his number so i called only if i wanted to. that he wouldnt insist. he was very respectful ^^ anyway this would work with any girl if she doesnt like someone else^^ also you can be friend with her. but he was insisting so much that he didnt want be only my friend so thats why i didnt call him. but i liked the way he talk really. go to the girl and talk sweet and caring^^ say hi im li :) can we talk a bit?^^ and smile to her :) im sure she wont mind to talk^^ if she says yes then ask her like how is she? what she likes do in free time, if she likes movies, if she likes poetry ahah things like this :) but dont just ask also talk about things you like and tell things^^ not only questions and questions^^ and remember always talk caring^^ she wont resist^^
@yeyelee (370)
• China
26 Sep 10
Hi,i'm Li.Can we talk a bit? Maybe i could get unexpected results if i have a try like what you described,because i always think i'm an inarticulate man,and others just could understand me through normal contacting day by day.Thanks a lot.You're so kind-hearted.Hope i could come out of the mood of haze as soon as possible.
• Portugal
30 Sep 10
yes you can^^ you are so sweet guy why a girl wont talk to you?^^ for what we talked till now is clear that you are romantic and caring. and we girls love boys like you. so dont be afraid to approach a girl^^ no girl will refuse to be your friend. and besides maybe you find a love too^^ just start with a sweet line and smile to her^^ we like nice boys^^ and always talk sweet to her^^ for sure she wont resist you^^ and dont think bad about yourself^^ you are a great guy^^
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