Why sometimes whom we care a lot, don't understand our feelings.

Pakistan
September 27, 2010 12:58am CST
Sometimes people don't get us right. Sometimes they misjudge us. The one whom we care a lot and who means a lot to us, don't even bother our feelings. If we care someone and value him a lot and he doesn't response the way we want then it really hurts. Mostly people hurt others without caring their feelings, what do u think? Do you have any such feeling?
2 responses
sudeep13582
@sudeep13582 (44)
• India
27 Sep 10
You care for him/her that doesnt mean he/she will care for you or atleast think for you in the same way... its the fact of life... sometimes we cant explain or express our feelings to others, then also may cause this types of situations... do try to express how you feel for other.. how you care for them, how they mean in your life... how they are valuable for you... thats the best think you can do only... understanding you is not your resposibility... thats their job.. if they failed they what can you do... live the life like a King... so you dont have to rely on others.. if possible then never expect anything from anyone... I have just explained what I have learned in my 28 years of life... :) rest is on your own hand... Have a nice time
fftwins
@fftwins (40)
• Pakistan
27 Sep 10
You are right. May be the problem is; not to express the way we feel for others. May be some persons don't understand our feelings without expressing those. I was thinking that feelings matter a lot than words, but this is a different type of world. Words really matters. But what if someone always has shortage of words or you can say if someone doesn't has courage to tell what's inside? Anyway thanks for sharing your good views with me.
pinoycity
@pinoycity (575)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
All of us experiences this feeling. You might not even notice it but some people, who loves you very much, are experiencing the same neglect from you, yourself.