How do you get back a lost love?

Philippines
September 27, 2010 2:21am CST
You parted with the man you had loved for several years all of a sudden and then you realize you want him back. What do you do to get him back in when you were the one who broke it off and shut him down? Is there redemption for such a mistake? Do you believe in second chances? He seemed to have moved on. Will you risk hurting him again by talking about it or do you just accept, you made a mistake by letting him go and then just move on with your life as well?
8 responses
@fey008 (295)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 10
i believe second changes... if the GOD could forgiven people.. Why people could'nt forgive the others ?
@fey008 (295)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 10
i believe second changes... if the GOD could forgiven people.. Why people could'nt forgive the others ?
• Portugal
30 Sep 10
if you are sure that you love me and that you made a mistake letting him go you must talk with him and tell him ^^ if you been with him for so long, so many years like you say is bcs he also cares for you still. if you broke up with him for sure he isnt ok bcs he loved you or he wouldnt be with you so many years^^ so if you left him and want him back go say that to him^^ for sure he will accept you back^^ is not easy to forget someone that we been with so many years so for sure he didnt forget you also^^ if you both had a true love for sure he didnt so just go now and talk to him^^ dont waste more time^^
• Quezon City, Philippines
30 Sep 10
i think before you make any attempts of getting back together again, it's best to try to befriend him first. from there, you can earn his trust again, as well as his affection.. i hope it goes well. don't be afraid to admit your fault and try to make things right again between the two of you. if you don't try at all then you've already lost. so best of luck!
• Indonesia
30 Sep 10
it all depends on the two of you. I don't want to upset you, but when he says he doesn't want to have anything to do with you I think you should respect him opinion. I'm sorry about that, very sorry. I wish you'll have a nice life with or without him
@Karunvig (714)
• India
1 Oct 10
Once lost ... lost forever.. !! If he has dumped you due to any reason whether valid or not hardly matiers. One should luv ur bad things and admire the good one's.. Kick him out and move ahead with some one nice and the one who really loves you....
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
27 Sep 10
Dear friend, I hope it varies according to the reason of breakups. The word sorry have great importance at times when it is used in right time in right situation. Moreover in love the ability to understand each other well and use love according might give a better chemistry. May be one should accept fault and convince not to repeat it. I hope to give forgive is another side of love.
• United Arab Emirates
27 Sep 10
It all depends on the reason of break up. But if you give up hope you are lost. Whatever may be the reason dont give up hope and prayers. This is what i have learnt and tried in my relation. I always believe in a second chance.