Quite a Story, not good, not so bad
By nvvn2015
@nvvn2015 (86)
United States
September 28, 2010 6:18pm CST
Heres my story of how I met the girl I loved today.
The story starts out in the sixth grade. I had been here my entire life, and she had gone to a different school in the same area. Once we made the change to middle school, we only had one, so we all had to go to the same school. You could say we weren't too friendly with each other. We didn't hate each other, but we didn't like each other very much. After that year, everything changed. As the seventh grade began, we started to act more friendly with each other, but talked to each other less. Soon, we became two people who new hardly anything about the other person, and couldn't really care less. Now, I know this might sound kind of stalkerish, but I began to dream about her. One day, I took a look at her, and realized how amazing she really was.
The next month was kind of hard on me. Her friend had kind of liked me, so she asked me out. I just didn't know about what to say, because if me and the girl I like ever went out, that would be kind of playerish. So I said I don't know, I'll think about it. The next day, I found out from my cousin that she had already found another boyfriend. I didn't know what to say, so I just said that's fine with me. The next few months I didn't speak to her. The eighth grade year was coming, and still silence.
Now, about halfway into the quarter, my cousin ( the one mentioned before ) told one of her close friends that I liked her friend. She then asked if the girl i liked liked me back, and said "no". That's not the part that made me mad, because I already knew that she was gonna say no. What made me mad was that my cousin had to do that. Now, at school, its worse than i ever imagined, because me and this girl have lockers right next to each other ( Our school goes alphabetical, our names both started with V). And here, we are at a standstill. I need advice. What should I do? She is kind of a quiet girl who keeps to herself unless her friends are there, and is a gymnast. What I do will either make me or break me, and right now, its breaking me into a million pieces.
4 responses
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 10
Well, this is some what difficult because she is a quiet girl, and it's hard to deal with that one.
I think it will be best for you not to focus yourself too much on her. This is, in my opinion, your gloriest moment as a living being. I believe you are now a teenager, right? Use that time well. Make friends as many as possible. Don't you just focus on one or two girls. Be friends with as much girls as possible. If you do you will never realize how bad your lonely moment was.
But if you do really want to be close with her so badly, then try to make friends with her friends, and you can get as many information about her from her friends. Use that info to get closer to her then.
@nvvn2015 (86)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I am friends with a few of her friends. But they don't ever give information to me about her because ,well, I don't know. And i'm not the type to go after people when I want to be friends. I'm kind of the guy who is different from everybody, but doesn't stand out in the crowd. It is kind of hard to understand, but thats how I feel. I'm shy too, I guess. I have been having good teen years, though. I just don't feel as happy however if I'm not around her.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 10
Hmmm, I think you are an introvert person then. Let's see. Well, then the only option available to you is try talking to her. Explain what you feel, everything you've got about her. You must take the risk, otherwise you will never know forever.
And, I suggest you practice not to be depended on her, because it will be quite frustrating if you will not be around her in the future. Just a safety precaution from me anyway.
@bumblebee34 (190)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
hey cheer up., the situation's not that bad.
as long as thegirl is a friend to yo hen there is nothing to worry of.
just act cool and control of the situation.
situation1: so what if she didnt like you? i dont think it's the same 'like' when we refer it to the crush issue right.
-she probably like you, but as as a crush. she just like you as a person, as you are.
so just be cool, and take things easy. soon she'll realize that you are one potential dude to be with.
situation2: so she has a boyfriend! so what?
-it doesnt mean you'll gonna steal her from his boyfriend right?
always bear this in mind "eventually they'll separate!"
you guys are too young to be so serious wth each other, the world has more than a billion population. so just stay cool and take things easy.
when love gets you, its always happy and sad, but that is ok, that is normal.
situation 3: what if she knew that you like her?
A. if she didnt react negatively,(like avoiding you or not talking to you even if you initiate the move in talking to her).
-she's considering your potentials. or like she's thinking the what if's and thinks that its normal to admire people.
B. if she acted negatively,(avoided you, gives you mean look, talk to you sarcastically)
-then, she is not worth your time. let her loose! there are still ther girls in school who's more worth it that you just didnt even noticed.
if she does these mean things, well agan keep it cool. just say,
"so what if i like you?'' then do the 'what do i care' act.. you can do the, "got a problem with that honey?"
tease her!
the more you tease her that yu like her, she'll get over the idea of you liking her and everything will be back to normal again and in tat time, you'll realize if you really do like her.
tcare and God bless! c".)
...please takethings easy ok! :)
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
29 Sep 10
Ok, that's bad. I've come across such situations before but not the same as yours. What I do is, to avoid the girl that I like so that we won't feel uncomfortable with each other. Another approach is to let her be and things will come to a stop. Now, if your cousin were to still keep quiet, you won't know what the girl will think about you up till now right? Plus, you'll still be carrying a torch for her!!! This was what I was in last time, until my friend helped to ask the girl I liked, whether I could add her in MSN, as my first step towards a relationship. What I get is, she doesn't simply add anybody to her MSN, which means a BIG BIG NO. See that? In life, especially regarding relationships, we need friends and our closest relatives to help us. We can't be always relying on ourselves. If the other party doesn't like you, let her be. Perhaps the right time hasn't arrived yet. We just have to wait.
@pokumon (644)
• United States
28 Sep 10
I'd suggest doing the same things that she does. Join gymnastics! It's fun I swear and female gymnasts love male gymnasts especially the one's who could do the splits. So hot. Just saying. I was a gymnast once too. If you start hanging around her more she may change her mind and see how great a guy you really are. Of course you always risk her changing it back and getting your heart broken too. Girls are kind of capricious. Good luck with all of this and remember that you're young and that girls will come and go.
