Do married people still fall in love for someone other than their partners?
September 29, 2010 1:21am CST
I've seen married people falling in love with someone other than their partner, I supposed they have fallen out of love with their present partner or it just happen that someone comes along too late and they just can't resist the temptation to love again. Why do you think this has to happen when you have made your vows not to keep it forever?
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29 Sep 10
If only couples remembered their vows and reasons why they wanted to be unified as one, we would not have the marriage deters that we have. Unfortunately many seek elsewhere instead of striving to perfect the marriage. I was married once before, via my Catholic Church and although I wanted it to work above all the havoc my ex-husband caused, unfortunately he could not commit to just one but yet wanted to have all of it at once.
29 Sep 10
reality check. yes,this relationship really do happened. i have a friend, whom told me everything about his marriage life and status. when he was 18 she had a girlfriend, actually at that time he has lots of girlfriends. then, he invited one of his girlfriend to go with him to the birthday party, of course, his gf said yes. and when the night fall and got dark, the girl does not want to come home the reason why its because her parents will be get mad at her.my friend and his gf decided to sleep at their house. then morning came, the girl still doesnt want to go home, they decided to Baguio City, the city of Pines in our Country. there, they did love making. when they came back home, the parents of the girl were in the house of my friend. my friend then, was not yet ready to enter marriage life. then days after, they got married. months have passed when she bear their first child. a year of marriage tested. my friend, went to study for a degree. there he met another girl, and later became her new girlfriend. her girlfriend doesnt know about my friend's status. until such time, someone told her new gf about my friend's wife and family. she went to the house of my friend and she saw my friend's family. she was got mad at my friend. one question that came from my friend was, if you dont love me, we will not continue this relationship. and his gf decided to continue their love affair. at the time my friend met his new gf, he told me that he fell inlove with her. at that time when he got married to his wife, his love for his wife was not that founded to remain still. he also told me that he was just experienced a force marriage that's why he left his wife and took their child. about his new gf, because he loves my friend there where instances that she had a fight with my friend's wife. i laughed when i heard about it. now, 11 years had past, my friend and his gf live together, with my friend's daughter from his first wife and with after two years they had a child. its because of his forced marriage who also forced him to fall inlove with somebody else. :)
29 Sep 10
Of course it do happen,and it's a test to every couple. Vows made during the wedding ceremony should always be kept as holy,no matter what. Once one break it,then,that would be the start of all problem. Falling in love with other person is possible,and that's the hardest part in a marriage life. Keep faith in GOD,and you will always be away from any temptations. Have a good day always
29 Sep 10
Hi, Falling in love with someone else after married is not the right way. Of course, it can happen ,but do you think it is the right way to go? For me, I will love my partner forever and I do hope he will love me forever too. Since we have decided to be husband and wife,of course, it is for forever and not for short period of time. We have contribute so much to the family and why should we create problem by falling in love with someone else.