Wounded by love

Indonesia
September 29, 2010 4:49am CST
Have you ever been hurt by an affair? Tell me, how to heal .. : (
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6 responses
@mickdsm (19)
• Brazil
29 Sep 10
The best cure from this type of wound is the time. Painful, but remember that tomorrow guards new surprises and new passions.
• Indonesia
29 Sep 10
This painfull .. Killing me slowly :( But, Thanks I appreciate your concern :)
• Brazil
29 Sep 10
Do not let them see the future that lies on front of you to focus on the pain that is behind you. Raise your head! You are strong! Will not die so easily. It hurts now but it's like a cut in the flesh, it hurts for while but eventually the pain goes away.
• Indonesia
29 Sep 10
Yes, you are right! I do not have to torture myself with this situation .. I have to survive I was tough And I definitely get through it all Because I CAN Yeah!
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Everyone experience heartaches and heartbreaks. I have loved and been hurt before. But I do not fear to love again and again. Then be hurt again. For I know these hurting I feel will mold me to be strong and rise again. Heartaches are part of loving. You are not loving when you are not hurting. But the hurt should be moderate and you should know when it is enough. Say when the relationship is not healthy, you should know when to go out. To be healed? Take some time to wallow. Take some time the hearatche sinks in. The pain will help you realize things what went wrong and the idea to move on. Ways to heal? Pamper yourself. It is not bad to visit a counseling session. You may likewise attend a retreat. Travel or be away with your usual routine or places. Take your time. Do not rush to move on because if you rush, you might be just avoiding the issue. If you avoid the pain, surely it will come back and may affect your next relationship. So face it...
• Indonesia
1 Oct 10
Okey .. Thanks a lot .. :D
@chillpill90 (1936)
29 Sep 10
What you need to remember is that there are people out there who care about you your friends and family etc.Spend time with them keep busy if you can do stuff you enjoy so then its hard for you to think of the person who has hurt you. Also remember that you will find the right person in time.
• Indonesia
29 Sep 10
But the thing is, he's having an affair with my best friend .. What should I do with them? Thank you for your attention .. :)
• South Korea
29 Sep 10
You just have to wait:) and enjoy the pain..lol im just kidding I mean while in this situation take time to review those actions that youve been made so that next time.. you will not do that again.. Everybody gets hurt but the difference is how we handle it.. and Im telling you when the time comes that you recovered.. you will find yourself laughing one day that you actually look stupid during that time.. acting like as if that person is worth it..so just wait..:)
• Indonesia
30 Sep 10
How long do I have waiting for this cure? Lord help me .. Thank you for your advice PRINCESS8881 :)
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 10
I was hurt by the person I loved in the past many times. Even by my own friend. It takes time, so I had to move far away from the person. When I moved away, I gave no notice at all, so I didn't have to hope that we would be in contact again. I know the person recently is trying to find me again, which is I should be happy about, but I realised I have gotten over him completely.
• Indonesia
29 Sep 10
Thank you .. I'll try it! :)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
as said by almost all people, time heals everything. bond with your friends, play with your pets (if you have), do something you love and in no time, you're in good shape.
• Indonesia
29 Sep 10
Yes .. I CAN :D