self confidence
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
September 29, 2010 4:32pm CST
are you happy with the way you look? or are there some parts of you body that you don't rreally like? do you try to achieve perfection
hmm I feel ok about the way I look. I would like to lose some weight right now but I try not to worry about it, I know I'll make it if I want. I don't want to achieve perfection beacuse I know I can;t be perfect. I am the way I am and who loves me loves me like this.I try to take good care of myself and nothing more. but there are girl around me who constantly try to look better and better and they get to look like babrie dolls, like they are made out of plastic. they get to surgery when they don;t really need it, because they believe they have a big nose or stuff like that.i'm not saying that sugery is wron, it's ok as long as you really need it and you can afford the operation. I don;t know in my opinion for others to like you, you need to have self confidence, and they'll like you the way you are.
3 responses
@gantwick (849)
• United States
29 Sep 10
If I need changes, I do it through exercise and changes in my eating habits. I don't think going under the knife is a good way to change a person's appearance unless there is some medical reason.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
29 Sep 10
a person beautiful inside it's appreciated no doubt. but could you have a relationship with smeone you don;t feel attracted with?
image becomes more and more important these days
you can;t feel confident when you have certain things that you don't like about your body, and if fixing those things makes you feel ok...then why not do it?
@gantwick (849)
• United States
29 Sep 10
I never was the kind of guy to seek out the best looking girl in order to start up a relationship. More often than not, I would find someone who shared similar interests and build on that. But I suppose if someone really and truly believes that plastic surgery would make their life better, and they are determined to go through with it, I certainly wouldn't stop them. I think they should have some type of counseling before and after the surgery, so they can accept the new person that they will see in the mirror.
@kkrnochefrancaB (34)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I really don't have self confidence on my own.I'm a shy type of person.I really don't trust my self because i always think negative that i can't do such things on my own.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
1 Oct 10
I'm down with my self confidence now...I would rather not get out on the street, and stay in the house
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Hello,
I am happy with the way i present myself to others and the way i dress of course dressing helps us to feel confident if we feel comfortable of it then we will feel and confident about ourselves.Well,about your question,i can say sometimes i feel when i gain some fat becasue i feel more confident and i can wear the clothes i cant wear if im thin but to be honest im not happy about myself becasue i want to be more tall,more fat and more sexy but i still dont feel bad at all i just feel awesome sometimes becasue i cant do some things like lifting and some hard jobs.
