Had I broken my heart for something unreal...??

Indonesia
October 1, 2010 5:11am CST
How could someone who never had a relationship so close and then it just break like nothing ever known before? It happened to me, my ex-boyfriend during high school was as though no need to know me anymore. However before he was a man who always never forget to just say happy birthday, merry, or just good news for its existence when it was in the same town with me was even though our relationship has been broken. Only one that I remember that he never did any more good news for last when I send my wedding invitations. According to you, if she had disappointed with my decision to marry so quickly without any story to him, or he just simply wanted to forget the past which for him has no meaning at all? Should I try hard not to remember that the treatment he is now against me? Please give me feedback....
4 responses
@ggbaroyf (17)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
i experience that my heart was broken for unreal news i heard.... because one of my friend told me that my boy friend has another girlfriend so when i heard that unreal news i was heart because i don't know that it was not real so i talk to my boy friend and i said to him that i want freedom then he ask me why so i told him about the news that i heard then he told me that it is not true.....
@xiangd (63)
• China
2 Oct 10
To be honest ,I'm not very clear that what you said,it's sounds like you have borke with you boyfriend and there is some unpleasure thing happens between you and him,you mean that you exboyfriend change very much after you broken up and he is more cold to you now, really? so i agree with most of guy's in mylot ,past is past ,life must be go on ,you are still yourself. even though I have not ever date with any girl yet ,but I understand that love is not all of one's life. So you could try to go out from your past life, no matter how terrible it was. That's my opinon,I don't know if it could help you,hehe!
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
Oh dear! Why in the world would you feel that way? You're getting married, right? What would it do to you if you would find out that he was hurt 'coz you're getting married? What do you expect from him after you broke up? I guess he has his reasons and now that you are getting married, you shouldn't bother yourself about that. You have a new life to face. Be happy with your future husband and set aside those feelings. Time will come and you'll get over it or you might sit together once again and talk things over in the past. Don't pretend not to remember but put in mind that things between the two of you is over. :-)
• United States
1 Oct 10
Well i know how you feel my exgirlfriend did the same to me right before my birthday and said she didn't want to see me again. i tried to be her friend but it didn't work. i guess she just wanted to forget me all together, so i did the same and forgot her i found that sometimes when someone wants to be ride of you that badly just let them go and move on. hope this helps.